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27 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 22
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I'm Gilian. Welcome to my profile.

Hmm self-summary...

People say that I'm insightful, creative, quirky, and kind.

I can be a little frazzled at first, but that's mostly because I try to be as genuine as possible, which can take a minute with new people.

I enjoy connection - especially when it's unexpected. And I'm committed to self-discovery, trying new things, and continuously opening my mind.

Originally from Westchester County, but lived in St. Louis for a few years during college. Currently living in Brooklyn and working in Manhattan.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a branding and communications strategist at a creative agency. We do design, art direction, writing, and production across media (digital, social, print) and live experiences. It's a crazy beautiful, challenging and inspiring place to work - mostly because of the people.

My background and passion though, is in art. I studied art history in school and have worked in a bunch of contemporary galleries and museums over the years. I also did a traveling artist residency program this summer that road tripped around major works of land art, national parks, and small quirky towns throughout the desert in the southwest.

On that note - I love to travel. Other favorites include a solo journey down the Mexican Riviera, and one with a friend to an ecolodge in Ecuador's Amazon Rainforest.

Likewise - and like many people on here - I like exploring local restaurants and bars, markets and shops, music and art spaces. Finding things that excite and inspire me.

I'm lucky to have a great community of friends and family, who I really value and tend to spend lots of time with - particularly over potlucks and live music.

I also spend a lot of energy bringing new life into my home and rearranging what already exists here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Taking risks
- Laughing big
- Listening and empathizing
- Honest one-on-one conversations
- Making sense of chaos
- Nourishing long friendships
- Keeping tabs on local happenings, esp art-related
- Quickly learning new song melodies
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
- my eyes
- my big smile
- my facial expressiveness...many have said that I wear my heart on my sleeve
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- The Stranger by Albert Camus
- Invisible Cities by Italo Calvino
- You Deserve Nothing by Alexander Maksik
- Tenth of December by George Saunders
- Stairway to Bethlehem by Joan Didion
- Leaving the Atocha Station by Ben Lerner

- Eternal Sunshine
- Manhattan
- The Royal Tannenbaums
- Wall-E
- Capote
- Can't Hardly Wait
- Her
- Dallas Buyers Club

- The Office
- Arrested Development
- Weeds
- Veep
- Masters of Sex
- Cosmos
- Broad City

- Prince
- Alt-J
- Chromeo
- Regina Spector
- Tune-Yards
- Philip Glass
- Foxygen
- The Shins
- Velvet Underground
- Talking Heads
- LCD Soundsystem
- Kate Bush

- I'll eat almost anything that isn't moving, especially when it's home cooked
- I love Greek, Japanese, Thai, Indian, Korean, Italian
- OHHH brunch food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- hot baths
- cheese
- travel
- dark chocolate
- yoga
- killer hair product (yuuuup)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mindfulness, and where I'm bringing my life next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Atypical nights are preferred.

But I guess I'm usually out with friends at a restaurant, bar, dance party, or hearing live music.

Sometimes i'm home cooking and relaxing with a movie or book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are open minded, patient, passionate, considerate, driven, excited about life, and love exploring.

Hopefully you love to teach others about your hobbies, and learn in the same respect. You love a challenge and adventure.

You're one of those people who'd give the shirt off your back to someone you care about. And if you can't do that, at least you can communicate openly about it.

You understand the beauty of personal space, but are also looking to make room for someone you connect with now.

You know and are willing to be truly yourself when we meet in-person. Let's not waste time pretending to be some ideal of what we may think the other wants.

Oh and IMPORTANTLY, you can make me laugh.