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Gilyon01

24 / M / gay / Single

Hyattsville, Maryland

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Japanese (Okay)

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I am Caring, Intelligent, and Sexual.

My Self-Summary

I tend to give people a first impression that's completely opposite of how I really am. I'm very quiet and reserved normally, and passive. It takes me a while to open up. I tend to be fairly submissive in nature too. I think I can be a little too trusting of people in general as well. Trust is very important to me, and I can't stand people who lie. I'm starting to develop a fear about falling in love due to this; I don't think there really are any truly honest guys out there. (including those who claim to be so in their profiles. (and I'm aware of the irony.)) Finally, I tend to be very supportive of people, often at my own expense. I'm trying to change this, as it's really bad for my mental health I think. More so when you have nobody around who's willing to hold you when you're the one who is crying. To be more specific on this, when somebody needs my help, I'm always there for them, and I do whatever it takes to help them. Given a choice, when I'm not in the middle of something, I wouldn't choose to be the one with responsibility, but I'll take it the moment I see somebody needs something, and won't regret it. It's just I wish I had somebody who would do the same for me. I'm also trying very hard not to turn emo. I don't think I could pull off the look. I know this part of my profile sounds kind of.... harsh maybe? I should probably change it, lol.

Um... let's see what else. I like traveling and hiking a lot, although I haven't done it that much over here. When I've gone to Japan I spend a lot of time hiking by myself. I've gotten kind of tired doing activities alone though, and seem to have fallen into a rut of sorts. Most of my friends aren't really the type to like outdoor stuff, and so I don't have anybody to do things with.

Lately I've been making an effort to be more outgoing. I'm not exactly sure how well I'm doing it though; it kind of goes against my natural instinct to talk to somebody I don't know very well.
Now in Japanese
日本人はokcupidを使わないと思う。だから、どうして日本語で僕のことを書くの?

What I’m doing with my life

I'm finishing up college right now. Last year. I really, really, really can't wait to get out. I'm a Japanese major, although I don't really want to do anything with Japanese for a career. I'd really like to work for the government in a certain capacity (which will remain nameless here) and am trying to figure out the best way to go about it. It's not easy...

I’m really good at

Listening to other peoples problems. And procrastinating homework.  I'll go ahead and say I'm good at trying new things too ^_^.
Now in Japanese
日本語はぜったいに上手じゃない。 :(

The first things people usually notice about me

Depending on if I'm dressed up or not, I would say my appearance. If I'm not dressed up, I don't think people notice me at all.

When I was at a recruiters office, a guy who had walked in off the street stared at me for a minute and then commented about my blue eyes. That was weird, but apparently some people think my eyes stand out.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Harry Potter, 1984, Animal Farm, The Time Machine, The Invisible Man, Hell anything by Wells!

I don't have a favorite movie, I'm to critical of them for that. Seriously, half the reason I see movies is to rip them apart.

The six things I could never do without

1.My family. They've supported me and been there for me my entire life. I forget how lucky I am a lot.
2.My computer. Yeah....
3.My car. Because I need to get around!
4. Food. Because I would be dead.
5. Water. Because I would be dead even faster.
6. Cats. Because I love them ^_^

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I'm going to be doing after I graduate. I'm not really sure at this point... just vague ideas. This, indecently, is related to what I'm doing now with my life! I also spend a lot of time thinking about past and future relationships; I've always tended to focus on them a lot.

On a typical Friday night I am

I don't have a typical Friday night. I'm equally likely to be clubbing as I am to be sleeping or playing on my computer.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I was a virgin until I was 21 and didn't start drinking until I was 23.

You should message me if

you'd like to find out more about me, or want to chat. Also, I don't hide my sexuality at all (in that if I'm in public I won't use euphemisms or any crap like that if I'm referring to, say, my boyfriend), and I could never be with somebody who was closeted or something similar.

... I think that last sentence was more of a "you shouldn't message me if"
Now in Japanese
これを読めたら、メールを送って、ね ^_^