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29 Jersey City, NJ Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:28am
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from law school
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**Perhaps you should start with the "You should message me if" section first. It will save us both time and energy.**

I went from being an EMT to being a fighter pilot to being a spy to being a lawyer. The government invested a lot of money in developing me, and I'm not even a superhero. Or am I?

I like the idea of being one half of a power couple and living the DINK life. I'm sapiosexual... Mmm, brains... I want someone who keeps me on my toes and curls them too...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
... lawyer-ing, traveling, and figuring out little ways to save the world.
... currently trying to teach myself how to speak Mandarin and play the guitar.
... pull-ups, dead lifts, running, etc. I'm a bit of a gym rat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... building my own furniture that also serves as art. For example, I built my bar and my coffee table. It's not that wimpy Pinterest stuff; I use power tools. Then I use it as a blank canvas and create art.
... public speaking and debate. My name is on Wikipedia for this. That's how you know you've truly made it.
... moving across the country. The move from Texas to NYC in August will be my 14th move. I've lived in NJ, DC, FL, TX, WA, VA, CO, TX again, and now, after 11 years away, I'm coming back.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... I have red hair. The stereotypes are true.
... I'm short. 5'2" on a tall day.
... I sport some ink. Everything has a powerful story behind it.
... dat ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Family, Freakonomics, Nudge, The New Jim Crow, Ishmael, The Ugly American, A Clockwork Orange, The Blind Assassin, The World According to Garp

Movies: Donnie Darko, Little Miss Sunshine, Eternal Sunshine, The Constant Gardener, Star Wars, anything that keeps me up at night

Music: Iron & Wine, Blind Pilot, Guster (disclosure: I'm biased because my cousin is their stage manager), Silversun Pickups, The Offspring, Metric, Tegan and Sara

I'm a public radio nerd. I saw Ira Glass last week; be jealous.

Food: I'll try anything twice. Brunch is my favorite food group.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- running shoes,
- my passport,
- amazing friends,
- mind-blowing sex,
- a voice, and
- something to fight for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... the state of the law and critiques thereof.
... social justice issues, including but not limited to mass incarceration, racism, LGBTQI rights, gender equality, white-collar crime, and poverty.
... international relations and international human rights.
... where to burn my vacation time next (going to Japan in August, and RoK, New Zealand, and South Africa are on the list for future trips).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... sometimes out, sometimes in, sometimes both but seldom neither.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you're a liberal, feminist atheist, with an advanced degree, excellent grammar, and more to say than "hey, what's up?"

... you're into flirty banter and cerebral foreplay.

... you can teach me something new.

... we have a match percentage that is >90%. If you think that gay marriage is wrong, creationism should be taught in schools, or that the earth is larger than the sun, we will not get along.

... you enjoy the outdoors and want to go camping, hiking, climbing, trail running, snowboarding, etc.

Please don't send me your copy-paste cover letters. I will not reply. A personal touch goes a long way.