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39 Minneapolis, MN Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 21
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and dislikes cats
My self-summary
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I'm one of those people who is pretty intense at times and still cool under pressure. I wear my thoughts and emotions on my sleeve, guile is not part of my arsenal of skills. I either feel strongly about things, or they don't even register, there's not much middle ground for many things. I don't have the patience or really the ability to play mind games, and I am probably overly-independent, which has probably been detrimental to my social life. It's not that I want to do everything for myself, I'm just very accustomed to it.

Introversion is my superpower. I can be trotted out to wade among the masses, but not very often, and it better be a good reason, like a music festival, or important family gathering or something.

I am drawn equally to science and art. I don't have all that much for artistic skills, but I like to try new things and I'm good with my hands.

I have 2 bull terriers and a mortgage, so it's kinda like having kids and a house. The dogs are kind of a big deal. I could probably live anywhere.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just getting started on career #2. Hoping the healthcare industry is more stable than biotech! Crossfit and weightlifting for fun and exercise. I coach some as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Driving, assembling jigsaw puzzles, lifting heavy stuff, trying new things.

Some paraphrased quote I saw once has it right. " You might not be able to be the best at something, but you can always try to get better at it."
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a brown-eyed blonde; I guess that makes me a freak of nature or something. My biting sarcastic wit. Or that I look exactly like somebody who works in the same building as they do, or some girl they knew in high school, or went to camp with, or their best friend's sister's cousin. seriously, I get that almost every week.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like anything by Christopher Moore, Carl Hiassen, and similar authors. I like non-fiction, too, but I prefer fiction. I don't read as much as I should, I get too sucked into researching whatever on the internet sometimes. Trying to work on that.

I'm not a big movie or tv watcher, very little originality anymore. I really don't miss much other than the occasional sporting event.

Musical tastes are all over the place. Indigo Girls, Better than Ezra, Neon Trees, Heart... Not real big into R&B, rap, electronica kind of stuff, though.

Mostly, I try to eat for performance, so I don't eat much packaged food. This means I cook a lot. Usually meat and vegetables, but I do like variety, so I experiment once in a while. Some things I make are failures, but most of the time, it's pretty decent. I will still eat out, of course, I just don't do it all that often.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've done without a lot of things in the past, and I'm sure I could do it again in the future. Will never give up my dog, though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All sorts of stuff. Wondering why if men stereotypically hate cats, do so many men seem to have them. Trying to figure out the attraction everyone seems to have for running 5ks lately. Deciding if the merits of grass-fed beef outweigh the expense over conventional- raised. Imagining how Staffrobot must laugh to itself every time it sends religious, heavy-bearded vegetarians to my quiver thingie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Raising the bar. And then lowering it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I despise hipsters with the heat of a thousand housefires. Ok, It's not really private, anybody who has been around me for an hour knows that. Sorry.
You should message me if
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You are intrigued. You aren't turned off by strong women. You don't skip leg day. Also, not vegetarian, religious, or homophobic.