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33 • Davenport, FL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has kids
- Has dogs and has cats
I'm married to a wonderful man (AverageJoe33), I'm bi. We firmly believe that a person is capable of having feelings for more than one person. We practice that lifestyle, with caution, and have had few problems. Our secret is communication. We tell each other everything. I think communication is important... no... necessary, for any relationship to work. Coupled with complete, and some times brutal, honesty, we have become the strongest, happiest, healthiest couple I've ever known.
At the moment, I'm looking for friends with whom I share common interests. I have so much going on that I don't really feel I have time for more. I have three kids, so you must like children. I also have 3 cats and a very intrusive dog, so you must like animals, as well. I play video games, watch movies, go on nerdy adventures, read a lot, cuddle a lot, play with the kids, am an avid runner, am an exercise junkie, am a coffee addict, collect weird shit, love thrift shopping, love DIY, am a cheapskate, and so many other things that I love to share.
About me...I am going to be a mental health professional, physically active, a mom, a lover of coffee and live music, educated, slightly less than romantic but I make up for it with my die-hard friendship. I'm brutally honest, excitable, fun, have an amazing work ethic, and am not at all shy. I can make anyone comfortable. My mother tells me I know no strangers. It's true, I'm comfortable in a room full of strangers and I'll leave with friends. I talk a lot, and fast, to anyone who will listen. I love people! I love making people laugh. Now, most people stop here, sharing only the most awesome things about themselves. I won't insult you with false images. I have plenty of flaws. I like perfection, I get bitchy if I'm going to be late (ask my husband, he is routinely 15 minute behind), I smell AWFUL when I sweat, I do not procrastination and will get snippy if I see it. I have a habit of cutting people off mid-sentence. It's not because I want to be rude. I'm so excited about my thought I don't want to lose it. I am slightly compulsive and annoying with my fitness thing.
Beyond that, I'm always striving to be a better person. I think life is a constant stream of lessons to be learned. I'm doing my best to pay attention.
I'm always looking to the next big goal.
I'm really good at making even the most shy people feel comfortable.
I would go into specific books, movies, shows, etc. but that would take a LONG time.
I like books and movies that make you think.
My family goes without saying.
Studying... more often than not.
I'll tell you now, if you're not going to read my profile and just randomly send me a one line message, I will probably NOT answer you.
If you're just trying to get a booty call, do not bother sending me a message.
Want to impress me? Ask me a specific question about something I mentioned in my profile and get a conversation going!
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