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Ginn81

32 F Deltona, FL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:32pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Student
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
First things first, I'm polyamorous. If you don't know what that is, I am happy to answer questions.

I'm married to a wonderful man (AverageJoe33), I'm bi. We firmly believe that a person is capable of having feelings for more than one person. We practice that lifestyle, with caution, and have had few problems. Our secret is communication. We tell each other everything. I think communication is important... no... necessary, for any relationship to work. Coupled with complete, and some times brutal, honesty, we have become the strongest, happiest, healthiest couple I've ever known.

I want someone with whom I share common interests. I have three kids, so you must like children. I also have 3 cats and a very intrusive dog, so you must like animals, as well. I play video games, watch movies, go on nerdy adventures, read a lot, cuddle a lot, play with the kids, am an avid runner, am an exercise junkie, am a coffee addict, collect weird shit, love thrift shopping, love DIY, am a cheapskate, and so many other things that I love to share. Ideally, you are relatively close to my age range, NOT lazy, take care of yourself, have ambition and share some of these interests. What you look like isn't as important as your personality. I know, you're calling bullshit. That's fine. I won't lie, I DO care how you look. I just have the opinion that everyone's looks will fade and you have to eventually have a conversation. So, I want someone I can connect with as well as someone who can make my girl parts all a-twitter.

**Note that you DO NOT have to be with both of us. We date separately. Many people assume that because I'm married and bi and poly that we're looking for that illusive "unicorn." Not true. We are, of course, open to dating the same person. But it's certainly NOT a requirement. It's not a package deal.**

About me...I am a mental health professional, physically active, a mom, a lover of coffee and live music, educated, slightly less than romantic but I make up for it with my die-hard friendship. I'm brutally honest, excitable, fun, have an amazing work ethic, and am not at all shy. I can make anyone comfortable. My mother tells me I know no strangers. It's true, I'm comfortable in a room full of strangers and I'll leave with friends. I talk a lot, and fast, to anyone who will listen. I love people! I love making people laugh. Now, most people stop here, sharing only the most awesome things about themselves. I won't insult you with false images. I have plenty of flaws. I like perfection, I get bitchy if I'm going to be late (ask my husband, he is routinely 15 minute behind), I smell AWFUL when I sweat, I do not procrastination and will get snippy if I see it. I have a habit of cutting people off mid-sentence. It's not because I want to be rude. I'm so excited about my thought I don't want to lose it. I am slightly compulsive and annoying with my fitness thing.

UPDATE 8/1/12 - I (we've) been seeing someone (Sola25Kandi).
I'm not really looking for any romantic relationships right now. Friends are fine, though. We'll see what happens!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working as a certified personal trainer working on building my clientele here, since we relocated. I'm also entering the mental health field. I am attending college (again) studying for my psychology doctorate. I'm volunteering to get work experience and looking for jobs in mental health.

Beyond that, I'm always striving to be a better person. I think life is a constant stream of lessons to be learned. I'm doing my best to pay attention.

I'm always looking to the next big goal.
I’m really good at
Sweating, eating, crafts, cooking, running, reading people, making friends, air hockey, reusing typical trash items for something useful (i.e. toilet paper rolls and dryer lint make excellent fire starters), building fires, making coffee (trained barista)... and I'm sure there's more stuff I'm good at!

I'm really good at making even the most shy people feel comfortable.

I recently started growing my own food. I hope I can say that I'm good at it!
The first things people usually notice about me
I would say my big smile. I almost always have it on. After that, it's probably my eyes. They're a mix between blue and hazel and almond in shape. Makes it hard to guess my ethnicity. Before you start the guessing game - I'm white. A blend of Irish and Italian that gives me pale skin, bright eyes and great hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like science fiction, fantasy, comedy, biographies, fitness, nutrition, psychology, nature, documentaries and most things that require an imagination or educate the reader/viewer.

I would go into specific books, movies, shows, etc. but that would take a LONG time.

I like books and movies that make you think.
The six things I could never do without
Exercise, my phone, sneakers, chap stick, hair ties and music.

My family goes without saying.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Workouts, my professional life, school, family, where I'm going, personal growth...
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching live music at a little bar or hanging with the family. Maybe dorky game nights with friends.
Studying... more often than not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me anything. I'll tell you the truth.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You find me interesting and want to get to know me. If you've actually read my profile.

I'll tell you now, if you're not going to read my profile and just randomly send me a one line message, I will probably NOT answer you.

If you're just trying to get a booty call, do not bother sending me a message. I don't do casual sex.

Want to impress me? Ask me a specific question about something I mentioned in my profile and get a conversation going!