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35 M Talent, OR

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 1
White, Other
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and very serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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The Maddening Transparency: that moment which arises immediately following an exposing and revealing experience wherein an individual pierces the veil of illusory thoughts and feelings and sees the fragile and eroding nature of belief-tenets long thought impervious to decay and destruction.

Have you experienced the Maddening Transparency? If not, you may soon. Find ways to survive and share the experience for the benefit of others.

I am motivated by evolution in all its forms. Spiritual, biological, scientific, individual and societal. If I am not growing and adapting on some level, I'm not interested. The stagnant and conforming life is not for me. This hasn't always been beneficial.

Currently I am self-employed and struggling to secure a future for myself. But I have a fair amount of English blood in me: I carry on; stiff upper lip an' all.

What I find the most sexy: Maturity, Respect, Masculinity, Knowledge, Philosophy, Open Mindedness, Good Conversation, Authenticity, Nothing to Prove, Scruffy, Skepticism, Spirituality, Honesty

The above traits are also what I have to offer.

I am passionate, visionary, and charming.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for myself building websites using a CMS as a platform. Typically I build and create WordPress sites for clients who are looking for a way to reach a larger audience by integrating social media into their business/organization.

My skill and ability far exceeds the skill set needed for website building, but without a college degree or certification, this is best place to start and build a portfolio. I look on the bright side too--who else can change from writing HTML to modifying a SQL query in WordPress' innards, to modifying graphics and layout, to improving the language and communication of a website, etc...

I have many talents. One of which is website building.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Blending science and technology with creativity and vision. I'm also really good at engaging my imagination to write and perform expressions of fictional worlds and stories in a consistent and believable fashion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually notice my eyes (physical trait) and my soft demeanor (metaphysical trait). I am a very warm and charismatic person. The first things people usually notice about me are also the things people notice about me on a consistent basis. I do not present a false persona to the world. What you see is what you get.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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[A] The Hobbit, The Lord of the Rings, The Scarlet Letter, The White Heron, The Yellow Wallpaper, A Series of Unfortunate Events, The Spiderwick Chronicles, Chronicles of Narnia, The Earthsea Trilogy, The Essential Rumi, J. K. Rowling's Harry Potter books (all of them), Mercades Lackey's Books (all of them), Wuthering Heights, The Collected Works of Edgar Allen Poe, and The Collected Works of H. P. Lovecraft.

[B] Donnie Darko, The Goonies, Beetlejuice, Edward Scissorhands, Big Fish, Chicago, The Gladiator, Fire Walk With Me, Eyes of Fire, Warriors of the Wind, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Kiki's Delivery Service, Night on the Galactic Railroad, Vampire Princess Miyu, Lord of the Rings, Amelie, Space Balls, The Princess Bride, The Neverending Story, The Secret of Nimh, Young Frankenstein, Indiana Jones (all), Star Wars (4-6), The Matrix (all three), Bladerunner, The 5th Element, Blair Witch Project, Phantasm, Hellraiser, Startrek: Insurrection, Startrek: First Contact, Finding Nemo, Monsters Inc., Audition, Session 9, The Mothman Prophecies, Ever After, May, and Harry Potter (all).

[C] Spiritual, Chanting, New Age, Electronic, Dance, 80s, 90s, Other.

[D] Red wine (Pinot Noir, Shiraz), Porto, Italian food (pasta), Thai Food (grass noodles, custard sticky rice).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) Intimacy (2) Food (3) Water (4) Adequate Sleep (at least 7 hours) (5) Books (6) Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My stories. I am always thinking about distant lands and magical realms where physics is merely a guideline. My imagination is quite active; it stays with we while I work, churning and turning over ideas in my mind until I have a polished, workable idea. I also spend a lot of time thinking about my life, my inner states of being, and my challenges. Other interests: Individualism, freedom, beauty, truth, and love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with one or two friends within an intimate setting. I rather enjoy the company of easy-going people who enjoy simple pleasure and company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am willing to admit much, since I do not believe an individual should live life in fear of rejection by others. That said, I believe the most important thing to mention would have to be the fact that I identify as "Gay" but I'm not Gay. Don't get me wrong, men are damn hot! and I'd gladly go into a long/short-term relationship with one in a heartbeat. It's just that I don't consider myself a "gay person" in that I act independent of gay stereotypes. I also live my life free of the social expectations associated with "being gay." As far as I'm concerned, I simply love men. It isn't more or less complicated than that. As such, I use the identity of "Gay" as an identity that best matches the way I live my life.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to. Really, I have no control over whether or not you will message me. Go ahead, we'll talk. Or don't, and we wont. It's up to you.