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30 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:54am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I've been in New York for a year now, and I love it. I've always wanted to live here, and I've always wanted to work in publishing. After taking a few detours--practicing law in LA, teaching high school in Texas--I finally decided to make it happen, and I feel like I'm right where I belong. Though I'll always be loyal to my college and hometown teams: the Texas Longhorns and OKC Thunder.

I like to stay busy and take advantage of all the city has to offer: films, museums, theatre, concerts, sporting events, amazing restaurants—I’m never happier than when experiencing something new. Just started swing dancing lessons, for instance. But as much as I love New York, I also like to get out of town and see new places. My favorite vacation so far was to Tokyo, but my travel to-do list is long. Brazil's up next in October!

I'm sometimes exhausted but rarely bored.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as an assistant at a literary agency, which is one of the best jobs ever--though looking forward to the day when I can open my own agency. Writing a bit. Re-prioritizing fitness. Building fun into every week.

"Do the best work you can. Have the best time you can. That's all that matters."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Cooking--but even better at baking
- Literary analysis (super useful, that one)
- Making friends wherever I go
- Planning trips
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just a few of each...

Books: Middlesex, Pride and Prejudice, The Sun Also Rises, The Portable Dorothy Parker. And so. many. more.

Movies: Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Wedding Crashers, The Princess Bride, Midnight in Paris. I tend to see more independent films but re-watch lighter fare.

TV: The Newsroom, Modern Family, and, if I'm being honest, Gilmore Girls.

Music: Current alternative like The Killers. 90's alternative/grunge like Nirvana and Veruca Salt. A smattering of everything else.

Food: Caesar salad, very rare steak, and French fries would be my last-meal menu, but I love trying new foods/cuisines/restaurants. Pizza and tasting menus: both excellent.

Hedwig and the Angry Inch is the greatest thing I've seen on Broadway...maybe ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Friends around the country and the world
- Negronis in the summer and Manhattans in the winter
- Books
- My trainer, who kicks my ass in the best way
- Theatres of all sorts
- Sunglasses (I have weirdly sensitive eyes.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My dreams and how to achieve them. Where I want to travel to next and how to make it happen. Increasingly, how to make my lifestyle better match my ideals.

And whether I'm going to get a puppy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or crashed out on the couch. Either way, there will probably be drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I dance wildly around my living room with the blinds open.
You should message me if
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Ideally, you're intelligent, witty, and kind, somewhat bookish, and you like to try new things. And/or you want to go swing dancing with the understanding that I am still a complete novice.