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50 F Santa Cruz, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 43–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:49pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hello! I'm happy to see you viewing my profile. I am dating in hopes to find my man, the one who ignites my heart and soul with love (and lust) and wants a long-term, committed relationship that ultimately finds us happily married.

I am divorced, with no children although I love children very much so if you have them, wonderful! I'm a lover of the SF Giants and if you are too, great! I would love to have someone to share that with. I know that everyone always talks about everything they like to do on their profiles and we all do have interests, but what is most important to me is that I find someone that I will love being with and vice versa. I would love to find someone that enjoys quiet times together cuddled up watching a movie or just cuddled up :) as well as other activities (Giants games; going to see live music; barbecues; getting together with friends for dinner, movies, or game nights; weekends away; drives up or down the coast; and so on). Family is very important to me and I hope to find someone who values his family as I do mine. Bonus points of you love family Christmases and Thanksgivings and are a cat and/or dog lover! Meow! Woof! :D I should add that I am a non-drinker. You don't have to be a non-drinker, but if you are a heavy drinker, we are not a match. I'm also not a real outdoorsy person. I'm not into camping, fishing, kayaking, hunting and all of that "guy" stuff. I'm just not a "roughing it" kind of girl. I'm girly and I like having things to do with "just the girls" and I actually want someone who wouldn't mind having things like that to do with "just the guys". I believe it is good to have interests outside of the relationship to do with your friends, particularly things your partner isn't into. To me, that's just as vital as having shared interests that we can participate in together, alone or with other couples.

The man I am looking for should know who he is and what he wants in life rather than still trying to figure any of this out. He would be very honest and upfront, much in the way that I am. I need to find someone that I can put my complete trust, love, faithfulness, and devotion into and once you have it, I'm a very loyal woman. I would like to find a relationship in which we would take care of one another, someone who loves to hold hands, and loves to give and receive affection (both publicly and behind closed doors). It is not necessarily a need as much as it is my heart's desire to find someone to enhance my life and to love with all my heart. I do miss having that as it is such a wonderful feeling! There's nothing nicer than waking up to a sweet good morning text from someone special and getting a text or two during the day to let me know I'm being thought of, things that I also love to do, and the anticipation of seeing and being with that person again. Well, actually, I take that back. There IS something better, which would be actually waking up next to that special person every morning and going to sleep next to him at night. Yes. Much better than just texts or phone calls! If any of this resonates with you and you would like to chat and get to know one another, please send me a message. I wont bite. I promise. Well.....maybe gently? Once we get to know each other well, that is :).

Thank you for viewing my profile. I hope to hear from you and, if not, I wish you the best of luck in your search for love or whatever it is you seek! Ciao for now ;).
What I’m doing with my life
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I just graduated (May 2014) from College and am currently seeking employment in my chosen field. Until then I am a daycare provider for my best friend's 4 1/2 year old twin boys.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, my eyes, and/or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: Anything by Dean Koontz!!

Favorite movies: There are a lot of movies that I love. I especially love movies that keep me on the edge of my seat, like thrillers and scary movies. I don't like the blood and guts slasher type of horror movies. I much prefer those dealing with the supernatural. If I get scared, I will hold onto your arm and lay my head on your shoulder :). I do also like dramas and some comedies.

Favorite TV shows: I love medical, police & crime dramas (Grey's Anatomy, Criminal Minds, CSI, Hawaii 5-0, Rizzoli & Isles) & comedies (2 Broke Girls & Big Bang Theory). My latest favorite is "The Blacklist". I'm also digging "Sleepy Hollow" and "Downton Abbey" as well!

Favorite music: Love the Eagles, the Beatles, Heart, Bon Jovi, and Elton John just to name a few. I love old 70's classic soul and funk from artists such as Stevie Wonder, the Spinners, and Earth, Wind, and Fire among many others. Old 60's and 70's pop music was great as well.

Favorite foods: Hot and spicy stuff!! Indian, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Italian, and more recently---sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. The items necessary to sustain life (food, oxygen, etc.)
4. My iPhone
5. Good health
6. Love (saved the best for last)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really is no typical Friday night for me. I could be home, working, or out with friends.
You should message me if
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You know who you are, you know what you want in life, and you're not afraid or made insecure because of a woman who knows exactly what she wants in her life (and doesn't want). Right now it's just a matter of finding the person to have all of that with :).

If you're really sick of the dating scene like I am and want to get off this crazy merry-go-round!