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51 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 30
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Catholicism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***I am ONLY interested in meeting someone who is looking to find a long-term, exclusive relationship in his life. I'm a plus-size woman looking for a single white male, preferably one who is educated. I find intelligent men to be very sexy. As for actual qualities I am looking for in a man, I know what I want and it should go without saying. If a man truly has the qualities I am looking for he will show them to me, naturally, over a period of time without any prompting from a list I have typed here in a dating profile. One thing I will say is that I only date one person at a time and I prefer someone who does this as well. If you're into multiple dating and sleeping with more than one woman simultaneously, or still going through or are fresh out of a divorce or a relationship, I'm not interested so please don't waste my time (or yours). Let me also say that I WILL ONLY DATE AGE-APPROPRIATELY!!!! If you are under 40, I am automatically NOT INTERESTED.***

Rather than fill my profile full of colorful adjectives to describe who I am, or who I THINK I am, I'd rather you find out for yourself. If you like what you see and would like to know more, please write to me. Let's try finding out who we are the old fashioned way, like we did when we first met someone in person rather than on a website---Let's talk. We can start with chat here and take it from there.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated (May 2014) from College and am currently seeking employment in my chosen field. In the meantime I am a Bank Customer Service Representative.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, my eyes, and/or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a lot of favorites in each of these categories. This is something we can actually talk about directly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. The items necessary to sustain life (food, oxygen, etc.)
4. My iPhone
5. Good health
6. Love (saved the best for last)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really is no typical Friday night for me. I could be home or out with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
---You want to!
---You don't mind or even prefer a plus size, curvy woman.
---You are truly interested in finding a serious relationship.
---If you love the SF Giants, that's a plus!