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51 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:59pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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***I am ONLY interested in meeting someone who is looking to find a long-term, exclusive relationship in his life. If you want to date and sleep with multiple women simultaneously or still going through or are fresh out of a divorce, I'm not interested so please don't waste my time (or yours). Let me also say that I WILL ONLY DATE AGE-APPROPRIATELY!!!! If you are under 40, I am automatically NOT INTERESTED.***

Rather than fill my profile full of colorful adjectives to describe who I am, or who I THINK I am, I'd rather you find out for yourself. If you like what you see and would like to know more, please write to me. Let's try finding out who we are the old fashioned way, like we did when we first met someone in person rather than on a website---Let's talk. We can start with chat here and take it from there.

I'm a plus size woman looking for a single white male who is looking for a serious relationship. He must be honest, faithful, trustworthy, patient and romantic just to name a few qualities I'm looking for. Dedication is also a must. If I find someone I like, I don't feel the need to be constantly looking around for the next best thing to come along and you should be like-minded. If I like someone, I want to put time and effort into HIM to see how far things can go rather than spread myself thin among a few different men. You must be like-minded or most likely we won't see eye to eye.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated (May 2014) from College and am currently seeking employment in my chosen field. In the meantime I am a Bank Customer Service Representative.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, my eyes, and/or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a lot of favorites in each of these categories. This is something we can actually talk about directly.
The six things I could never do without
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1. Family
2. Friends
3. The items necessary to sustain life (food, oxygen, etc.)
4. My iPhone
5. Good health
6. Love (saved the best for last)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really is no typical Friday night for me. I could be home or out with friends.
You should message me if
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---You want to!
---You don't mind or even prefer a plus size, curvy woman.
---You are truly interested in finding a serious relationship.
---If you love the SF Giants, that's a plus!

I've met a lot of liars in the online dating world who claim they are looking for a relationship when really all they wanted was sex. There have been too many that advertise they are looking for a serious relationship only to find out they aren't nearly ready for one or are using this site to find someone to help them get over someone else. Sorry, but this kind of stuff I cannot tolerate. I'm ready for someone real and serious. I have a lot of love to give to someone who deserves it. I have gotten a lot of lip service from guys and I'm a firm believer that actions speak much louder than words and sometimes inaction speaks the loudest. You must be able to handle a straight-forward woman who speaks her mind and stands up for herself. I'm a strong woman and seek someone who is man enough to handle that and who won't be intimidated. I say what I mean and mean what I say.......