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50 F Santa Cruz, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:39pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Hello and thank you for stopping by my profile. I am here looking to ultimately find a long-term, committed relationship that will one day lead to marriage.

I am 50 years old, divorced, with no children although I love children very much so if you have them, wonderful! I'm a lover of the SF Giants and if you are, too, great! I would love to have someone to share that with. I know that everyone on this site always talks about everything they like to do and we do all have interests, but what is most important to me is that I find someone that I will love being with and vice versa. I would love to find someone that enjoys quiet times together cuddled up watching a movie or just cuddled up :) as well as other activities (Giants games; going to see live music; barbecues; getting together with friends for dinner, movies, or game nights; weekends away; drives up or down the coast; and so on). Family is very important to me and I hope to find someone who values his family as I do mine. Bonus points of you love Christmas and are a cat and/or dog lover! Meow! Woof! :D

The man I am looking for would be very honest and upfront, much in the way that I am. I need to find someone that I can put my complete trust, love, faithfulness, and devotion into and once you have, I'm a very loyal person. I would like to find a relationship in which we would take care of one another. It is my heart's desire to find someone to enhance my life and to love with all my heart. I truly miss having that as it is such a wonderful feeling! If you would like to chat and get to know one another, please feel free to email. I must request one thing, however. PLEASE be at least 39 or 40 years old because ages below this are just too young for me and in general, I am looking for very different things than someone in their 20's or early 30's.

Thanks for stopping by my profile and best of luck in your search for love!
What I’m doing with my life
I just graduated (May 2014) from College and am currently seeking employment in my chosen field. Until then I am a daycare provider for my best friend's 4 1/2 year old twin boys.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my eyes, and/or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Anything by Dean Koontz!!

Favorite movies: There are a lot of movies that I love. I especially love movies that keep me on the edge of my seat, like thrillers and scary movies. I don't like the blood and guts slasher type of horror movies. I much prefer those dealing with the supernatural. If I get scared, I will hold onto your arm and lay my head on your shoulder :). I do also like dramas and some comedies.

Favorite TV shows: I love medical, police & crime dramas (Grey's Anatomy, Criminal Minds, CSI, Hawaii 5-0, Rizzoli & Isles) & comedies (2 Broke Girls & Big Bang Theory). My latest favorite is "The Blacklist". I'm also digging "Sleepy Hollow" and "Downton Abbey" as well!

Favorite music: Love the Eagles, the Beatles, Heart, Bon Jovi, and Elton John just to name a few. I love old 70's classic soul and funk from artists such as Stevie Wonder, the Spinners, and Earth, Wind, and Fire among many others. Old 60's and 70's pop music was great as well.

Favorite foods: Hot and spicy stuff!! Indian, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Italian, and more recently---sushi.
The six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Friends
3. The items necessary to sustain life (food, oxygen, etc.)
4. My iPhone
5. Good health
6. Love (saved the best for last)
On a typical Friday night I am
There really is no typical Friday night for me. I could be home or out with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 43–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You know who you are, you know what you want in life, and you're not afraid or made insecure because of a woman who knows exactly what she wants in her life (and doesn't want).

I have run across far too many guys who say they want a serious relationship, but in reality don't know who they are and what they want in life, even at our age. I want to meet someone whose feet are firmly planted on the ground and who is SANE, who won't be beaming with excitement over me one day and completely ignoring me the next, leaving me wondering what the hell happened overnight (honestly that's pretty inconsiderate behavior and I'm not interested in communicating with people who are prone to such behavior). PLEASE THINK before you say and do things and if distance is an issue, PLEASE THINK ABOUT THAT before you contact me.