As for what I'm looking for: Honesty. I want someone who trusts me and our relationship enough to be honest in every way and share their life with me. I want a woman who is willing to get to know me and let me get to know her.
**Update: I work for a public school system and with kids. I cannot afford to be associated with anyone who does drugs of any kind. I don't just other's lifestyles but for me this is a deal breaker.
**Update: Honesty is important to me so I feel I must be clear; I'm not a religious person and I do not believe in God. For many this is a deal breaker and understandably so. I want to be clear because I don't want to waste anyone's time.