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48 Zürich, Switzerland Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Apr 24
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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still thinking about what to put here but I added some stuff below
What I’m doing with my life
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Living in Switzerland and enjoying it very much. I'm an engineer working in a rather obscure & specialized area of high voltage engineering. It's varied and it takes me all over the place, which I like.
When I'm not doing that: TONS OF OTHER STUFF. My life is pretty full but I often miss sharing it with someone which is why I'm here..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singapore noodles, lamb saag, finding difficult Messier objects, listening, writing, talking, chopping kindling, helping friends, figuring things out, fixing stuff...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, approachable, I engage people, I'm enthusiastic & observant. Sometimes I'm very outgoing, but normally I'm somewhat introverted. Most people guess I'm a lot younger than I am.
I'm more of an aesthete and more of a romantic than most engineers (at least male engineers).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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After having neglected reading *books* during recent years, now I'm making time for it. Recent faves: Tom Wolfe's I Am Charlotte Simmons, William Boyd's Restless & Any Human Heart, Jonathan Franzen's Freedom, February by Lisa Moore, Sabine Bode's Kriegsenkel (& -Kinder). I like History (e.g. Antony Beevor) and lots of other stuff. So many things to read, so little time...

Movies: I really love film but haven't been getting out enough. Just saw the Hobbit (and I love LOR, having read the books 2x years ago, I found the movies quite 'close'). Other ones I liked: Django, Cloud Atlas, We Need to Talk About Kevin...Gomorrah, An Education, The Reader, The Hours, Atonement, Snatch, Heist, The Departed, Mystic River*, Bienvenue Chez Les Ch'tis, Jason Bourne, Koyaanisqatsi/Powaqqatsi, 2001, Pale Rider (pretty much anything Clint did except the stupid comedies), La meglio gioventù, Lawrence, Passage to India, Merchant Ivory, etc etc etc

Music: oh that's a big one...just a smattering...U2, Peter Gabriel, Neil Young, Mary Chapin Carpenter (a goddess..), Dylan, Joni, Emmylou Harris, Santanna, Royksopp, The Knife, Talvin Singh, Eno, Michael Brecker, Joshua & Dewey Redman, Marcus Miller, Miles, Charles Lloyd, Coltrane, Monk...Melissa Etheridge, Sarah McLaughlin, Pumpkins, Roddy Womble, Patti Smith, Richard (and Linda) Thompson, Eddie Vedder, Bach, Brahms, Biber, Sibelius, Chopin, Vivaldi, Verdi, Youssou N'Dour, Tiken Jah Fakoly, Toure Kunda, Ismael much music, so little time...

Food: spicy Asian, pancakes, biscuits, fresh bread (= stuff I like to make), 'country' Italian & French, grilling fish on a wood fire, fondue & raclette, omelettes aux truffes, white chocolate (but only the good one from Aldi)...and for me good food includes good wine! :-)

wow I wrote a lot...left out 'Art' & 'Cities' like Fondation Beyeler, Hamburger Bahnhof in Berlin, d'Orsay, MFA Boston...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My amazing great friends, mobile phone, Swiss army knife, music, The Economist, glasses (incl sun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging & cooking with/for friends, playing Scrabble, Uno, dominoes, or backgammon, discussing Gott & die Welt...if it's clear, going out with my telescope :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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...even though most of my friends wouldn't believe it, that I'm actually somewhat shy at times
You should message me if
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you're real and down-to-earth and still haven't lost your sense of wonder. Affectionate helps :-)

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