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27 M Asheville, NC

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 26–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly vegetarian
Aries, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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LA - Santa Cruz - Brooklyn- Asheville
I have seen all of the US except for Alaska. (One day!)
Moved to Asheville from Brooklyn this past Spring and am loving it!

Life is so beautiful and my goals are huge. Why not? Why not just live your own life that feels so good you cannot stop. I must not stop. The wind holds the answers and I am learning to listen.
I am an energy worker, drag kween, burner, queer, deeply spiritual/ wooy, glitter pissing punk, gender bending, post-top-surgery ftm -ish, magical creature. Tranimal! You also have to know I can be quite sassy. It's mostly charming.

People who are good at/ working on their communication, are honest to their commitments, and follow their desires makes me incredibly hot. I am my own Primary. I am interested in open relationships where we practice compersion. My romantic cosmology consists of people spread out across the states and I do long distance well. Currently cultivating folks who all want to be in the same room together no matter how far apart we are. I have a lot of heart space to offer and it is equally important I rest in some alone time as well. Also, looking for friendships and people who want to hang out regularly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
* Full time body piercer
* Spending a lot of time in our house garden, making food, and meditating.
* Leaving darkness behind while stepping into my joy.

Walking Toward:
* Trading my sedan for a truck
* Going to Herb School next year
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self Actualization.
Being Intentional.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Courageous: Not deterred by danger or pain; brave.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently Reading: Non Violent Communication

Books: The Last American Man, Animal Dreams, Walking a Sacred Path, The Prophet, Farm City, No One Belongs Here More Than You, Lolita, 1 Dead in Attic, Big Big Love, The Piercing Bible, eat pray love, The Sanford Meisner Approach, The Savage Detectives, Theater of The Oppressed, Whipping Girl, Stone Butch Blues, The Human Pony, The Alchemist, Choke, White Oleander, Are You My Mother?

Movies: Interview With a Vampire, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, RHPS, Princess and the Frog!

Music (at the moment):
Massive Attack, iamamiwhoami, Of Monsters & Men, Little Dragon, Mumford & Sons, Beats Antique, Nina Simone, Vermillion Lies, Delta Rae, Honey Island Swamp Band, Louis Armstrong, Feist, Adele, The Zydepunks, Bessie Smith, Santigold, The Black Keys, Slam Poetry (Andrea Gibson, Buddy Wakefield, Sunni Patterson), Hot Club of San Francisco, Old Crow Medicine Show, Lucky Jukebox Brigade, Queen, Pinch, Ratatat, Jenny Lewis, MJ, The Knife, Fever Ray, Horrorpops, Bassnectar, Dubstep, The Sounds, The Gossip

Food: Sushi, Thai, Vegan Treaties!
*I don't eat red meat or pork.
*local foods/ farm foods = incredible!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
radical self reliance
being a student of the open road
story telling
creative outlets/ performing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Loving ALL beings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... remembering I have to work a 13 hours shift the next day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. Kinda freaked out by animatronics.
2. I am half Rumanian.
3. My Taurus cusp is showing with all this list making.

*I get annoyed with folks who think it's sooo mysterious when they put no information here and then ask, "Wouldn't you like to know?"
You should message me if
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There are SO many kinds of folks I want to date and/or befriend.
- magical beings
- emotional intelligence
- big hearts
- rad femmes
- learning and teaching. skill trade!
- quality non/verbal communication
- spiritual practice
- folks who play the banjo and/or spoons
- total babes
- southern gentlemen (any gender expression)
- being more animal than human
- have a fetlife/ wanna make out

**If you want to just get together and meditate, I am down.** Also, finding waterfalls and swimming holes!

Do NOT Message Me If:
* You are femme-phobic. Oh no, Kween!.
* You have questions about my genitals. Not your business unless I want to disclose anything to you. Trans 101, you're welcome.