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28 Asheville, NC Trans Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid

Trans Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:17am
Queer, Sapiosexual, Gay
White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Used up
Mostly vegetarian
Aries, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
LA - Santa Cruz - Brooklyn- Asheville
I have seen all of the US except for Alaska. (One day!)
Moved to Asheville from Brooklyn Spring 2014 and love it! My life has changed so much here and I am feeling very grounded.

Life is so beautiful and my goals are huge. Why not? Why not just live your own life that feels so good you cannot stop. I must not stop. The wind holds the answers and I am choosing to listen.
I am an energy worker, drag kween, burner, queer, deeply spiritual/ wooy, glitter pissing punk, gender bending, post-top-surgery ftm -ish, magical creature. Tranimal! *Male pronouns no matter how I am presenting. (Unless you're a QUEEN! Then, we can discuss.) You also have to know I can be quite sassy. It's mostly charming.

People who are good at/ working on their communication, are honest to their commitments, and follow their desires makes me incredibly hot. I am my own Primary. I have a boyfriend. My romantic cosmology consists of people in town. I do long distance well but right now my focus is on some local cuties. I have a lot of heart space to offer and it is important that I rest in some alone time as well. Also, looking for friendships and people who want to hang out regularly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Apprenticing at an Herb School.
- Freelance body piercer. Want one? Send me a message.
- Spending a lot of time in our communal home making food, meditating, dancing, and gardening.
- Performing drag with Kings and Queens and Oho's.

Walking Toward:
* Trading my sedan for a truck.
* Deepening my woo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self Awareness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Courageous: Not deterred by danger or pain; brave.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently Reading: Food Not Lawns

Books: The Last American Man, Animal Dreams, Walking a Sacred Path, The Prophet, Non Violent Communication, Farm City, No One Belongs Here More Than You, Lolita, 1 Dead in Attic, Big Big Love, The Piercing Bible, eat pray love, The Sanford Meisner Approach, The Savage Detectives, Theater of The Oppressed, Whipping Girl, Stone Butch Blues, The Human Pony, The Alchemist, Choke, White Oleander, Are You My Mother?

Movies: Interview With a Vampire, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, RHPS, Princess and the Frog!
Shows: The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Once

Music (at the moment):
Massive Attack, iamamiwhoami, Of Monsters & Men, Little Dragon, Mumford & Sons, Beats Antique, Nina Simone, Vermillion Lies, Delta Rae, Honey Island Swamp Band, Louis Armstrong, Feist, Adele, The Zydepunks, Bessie Smith, Santigold, The Black Keys, Slam Poetry (Andrea Gibson, Buddy Wakefield, Sunni Patterson), Hot Club of San Francisco, Old Crow Medicine Show, Lucky Jukebox Brigade, Queen, Pinch, Ratatat, Jenny Lewis, MJ, The Knife, Fever Ray, Horrorpops, Bassnectar, Dubstep, The Sounds, The Gossip

Food: Sushi, Thai, Vegan Treaties!
* savory > sweet
* I don't eat red meat or pork.
* local foods/ farm foods = incredible!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
story tellers
the open road
creative outlets/ performing
dancing with gender
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing different things. Sometimes I'm not even aware it's Friday. Other weeks I cannot wait until Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. Kinda freaked out by animatronics.
2. I am half Rumanian.
3. My Taurus cusp is showing with all this list making.

*I get annoyed with folks who think it's sooo mysterious when they put no information here and then ask, "Wouldn't you like to know?"
Nope, I would not.
You should message me if
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There are SO many kinds of folks I want to date and/or befriend.
- magical beings
- emotional intelligence
- big hearts
- rad femmes
- conscious masculine folks
- learning and teaching. skill trade!
- quality non/verbal communication
- spiritual practice
- folks who play the banjo and/or spoons
- total babes
- being more animal than human
- have a fetlife/ wanna make out

**If you want to just get together and meditate, I am down.** Also, finding waterfalls and swimming holes!

Do NOT Message Me If:
* You are femme-phobic. Oh no, Kween!.
* You have questions about my genitals. Not your business unless I want to disclose anything to you. Trans 101, you're welcome.