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28 Asheville, NC Trans Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid

Trans Man, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Sep 26
Queer, Sapiosexual, Gay
White, Other
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Used up
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
LA - Santa Cruz - Brooklyn- Asheville
(November 2015 I'll be moving to Atlanta.)
I have seen all of the US except for Alaska. (One day!)
Moved to Asheville from Brooklyn, Ny Spring 2014 and love it! My life has changed so much here and I am grateful for all of the experiences.

I am an energy worker, drag kween, burner, queer, deeply spiritual/ wooy, glitter pissing punk, gender bending, post-top-surgery ftm -ish, magical creature. Tranimal! *Male pronouns no matter how I am presenting. (Unless you're a Queen! Then, we can discuss.) You also have to know I can be quite sassy. It's mostly charming.

DaeDazer and I are in a sexually exclusive relationship.
At the moment I am looking for friendship, skill trades, and hanging out on porches.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Apprenticing at an Herb School.
- Freelance body piercer. Want one? Send me a message.
- Spending a lot of time in our communal home making food, meditating, dancing, and gardening.
- Performing drag with Kings and Queens at The Underground.
(I'm Ser Vex.)

Walking Toward:
* Trading my sedan for a truck.
* Deepening my woo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self Awareness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Courageous: Not deterred by danger or pain; brave.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently Reading: The Web That Has No Weaver (TCM)

Books: Food Not Lawns, The Last American Man, Animal Dreams, Walking a Sacred Path, The Prophet, Farm City, No One Belongs Here More Than You, Lolita, 1 Dead in Attic, Big Big Love, The Piercing Bible, The Sanford Meisner Approach, Theater of The Oppressed, Whipping Girl, Stone Butch Blues, The Human Pony, The Alchemist, Choke, White Oleander, Are You My Mother?

Movies: Interview With a Vampire, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, RHPS, Princess and the Frog!
Shows: Damages, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad

Music (at the moment):
Alt j, fka twigs, Massive Attack, Yes Ma'am, iamamiwhoami, Of Monsters & Men, Little Dragon, Mumford & Sons, Beats Antique, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Vermillion Lies, Delta Rae, Honey Island Swamp Band, Louis Armstrong, Feist, Adele, The Zydepunks, Bessie Smith, Santigold, The Black Keys, Slam Poetry (Andrea Gibson, Buddy Wakefield, Sunni Patterson), Hot Club of San Francisco, Old Crow Medicine Show, Lucky Jukebox Brigade, Queen, Pinch, Ratatat, Jenny Lewis, MJ, The Knife, Fever Ray, The Horrorpops, Dubstep, The Sounds, The Gossip

Food: Sushi, Thai, GOOD Mexican (I'm from LA).
* savory > sweet
* I only eat birds and fish.
* local foods/ farm foods = incredible!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
story tellers
the open road
creative outlets/ performing
gender debauchery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my healing path will lead as a career.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing different things. Sometimes I'm not even aware it's Friday. Other weeks I cannot wait until Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. Kinda freaked out by animatronics.
2. I am half Rumanian.
3. My Taurus cusp is showing with all this list making.

*I get annoyed with folks who think it's sooo mysterious when they put no information here and then ask, "Wouldn't you like to know?"
Nope, I would not.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Do NOT Message Me If:
* You are femme-phobic. Oh no, Kween!.
* You have questions about my genitals. Not your business unless I want to disclose anything to you. Trans 101, you're welcome.

There are SO many kinds of folks I want to befriend:
- magical beings
- emotional intelligence
- big hearts
- rad femmes
- conscious masculine folks
- learning and teaching. skill trade!
- quality non/verbal communication
- spiritual practice
- folks who play the banjo and/or spoons
- being more animal than human
- kink community. I am hisroyalblood on fetlife.

**If you want to just get together and meditate or hang out on a porch I am down.** Also, finding waterfalls and swimming holes!