I can't force sparks or chemistry. I wish I could. That'd be the cure for loneliness across the globe. Various titles of romantic comedies and an image of Jennifer Lopez's face just popped into my consciousness. What was that movie? Maid in Manhattan?
I just shuddered.
I'm very 420 friendly and listening to music with headphones on as I attempt to write this out. Right now, the music is very peaceful and rhythmic. I like to think that it has the possibility to resonate with me, almost like a certain frequency of vibration or wavelength, like ripples on a pond. Smoking with a woman and hanging out and simply talking, or cooking food, or watching a movie can be a very relaxing way to get to know someone, or pass the time with some laughs.
Musical taste. Hm. I may have a borderline obsession with Maynard James Keenan and all of his projects. I also love Nine Inch Nails, Alice in Chains, Deftones, Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, System of a Down, etc etc. That sort of time period and genre. But I also have a ton of deadmau5, Kaskade, Nujabes, Tiesto, etc. Sometimes I listen to dubstep. I'm giggling at the thought of someone dismissing me immediately at that confession. I also love 90s and early 2000s rap. Like old DMX, Wu Tang, Jay-Z, Onyx, and the like. I dunno, I've found I can enjoy just about any music, as long as I'm in the right frame of mind for it.
My nutjob hobby is barefoot running. I'm that possibly slightly crazy guy that you may catch running in the snow and ice in Albany. I like to do it all year long, in any weather, and usually just run on sidewalks and along the streets. Somehow I still have all of my toes. I'll see if I can spare you the long winded ramble on how we may have been born to run, and how our bodies are designed perfectly to accomodate such, and the likes of Da Vinci marveled at the design of the bones in our feet and its complexity and effectiveness. It even uses the arch! Having a new running partner is always very welcome, but hardly a necessity. It's just something I enjoy, not a required lifestyle.
I'm finding it difficult to describe exactly what sort of woman that I'm searching for. I like down to earth, being able to laugh, yet having someone smart enough that she keeps me on my toes; perhaps even willing to call me on my bullshit. I'd like to meet someone new, explore, and have some fun. Sure, physical attraction is important, but I'd like to believe that it's just one small facet. If any of this clicks with you, send me a message!