Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a long term relationship and not friends with
benefits, so if you are looking for casual sex or aren't looking
for a relationship, please move on. That said, I'm not looking to
immediately jump into something very serious. I've made big
relationship mistakes in the past and am being much more careful
I'm confident, warm, friendly and career driven. I highly value
intelligence and education and am looking for someone who will
challenge me and help me grow as a person.
I want to find someone who is in a good place personally,
professionally, and financially, and simply wants to share his life
with someone else. My ideal partner is educated and makes me laugh,
and is confident but not pretentious. I am looking for a man I will
admire for his integrity, intellect, strong work ethic, kindness,
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am very career oriented and am looking for someone who shares
that passion. I'm pretty happy with where I am professionally, as
this has been my focus for the last few years, and now I'm making
an effort to focus more on my personal life - friendships, dating,
eating better, getting active, and seeing more of the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and problem solving;
Learning lessons the hard way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very much a girly girl. I always wear makeup, have nicely
manicured fingers and toes, and smell nice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fun girls nights
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
No idea, but I read this recently and remind myself of it
#13 Start entering new relationships for the right reasons. Enter
new relationships with dependable, honest people who reflect the
person you are and the person you want to be. Choose friends you
are proud to know, people you admire, who show you love and respect
– people who reciprocate your kindness and commitment. And pay
attention to what people do, because a person’s actions are much
more important than their words or how others represent them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. I might be at home with a movie and glass of wine, out
drinking and dancing with my friends, going to the movies, or
leaving for a weekend trip somewhere fun. I also enjoy fine dining,
ethic restaurants, plays, musicals, and the symphony, but need to
find someone to go out with!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are fun, cute, outgoing, career oriented, confident, appreciate
a curvy girl, have a college degree (a graduate degree is even
better!), and are looking for a long term relationship.
For me, sex and monogamy go hand in hand, as that is not something
I share. Know that dating me means no sex until things are
exclusive (but exclusive does not have to mean very serious).
That's not negotiable, so move on if it's a deal breaker.
After a few disastrous OKC dates, I realize I need to add a "Do not
message me list". DO NOT message me if you:
Believe you have ESP;
Will judge me for believing in Western medicine;
Have been charged with or convicted of a crime;
Live in a hotel or with your parents;
Are not open to a long term relationship;
Are looking for only sex or a FWB;
Are massively in debt; or
Are critical, argumentative, or uptight.
Don't message if you like to sleep until 11 or 12 on the weekends.
It's one thing on occasion if you were out partying until 5am, but
sleeping the day away on the regular drives me nuts.
New one - if you think it's appropriate to ask for legal advice
before we even meet, please don't message me. WTF.
If your screen name includes the words "lick" "69" or "BBC".
I'm sure this list will continue to grow as I talk to more people
on here. :)
Yep, here is another! If you don't think it's scary as hell to
drink too much and profess your love for me and desire to spend
your life with me when we are on our second date, then please move
If you do not live in metro Atlanta. Why do I keep getting messages
from men in other countries??
If you are going to admit to me on the fourth date that you are
actually married and still together, but she is 20 years your
senior and you only married her to have someone pay your bills
while you worked toward a college degree. Yes, this happened.
If you are going to give me a deadline for the latest acceptable
date for me to put out, and threaten to delete my number and never
contact me again if I don't agree to this sex deadline. This also
If you prefer to spend 2-3 hours every single night with me on the
telephone, but are not enthusiastic about actually getting
together. This is not middle school and I'm a grown woman, so take
me out and let's have a great time, damn it!
I am now pretty convinced that I'm a crazy magnet, but I only need
one great and sane guy, so I'll keep looking and sorting through
the masses of insanity until I find him. :)
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