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32 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:18pm
Black, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's actually pretty easy to talk about yourself. But what do you really want to know? Other than I think OkCupid could merge this section with the "What I'm Doing With My Life" section.

So... here's a chance to ask 20 questions (or go laugh/judge the answers I provided in the questions section, it's probably a more direct window into how my mind works).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Non Profit Crusader by day (Arts Education) and Vintage Car Blogger by Night. Sometimes DJ, Sometimes Amateur Astrologer. Between that I sleep, eat and watch re-runs of television. With frequent urban hikes and small road trips in between. Weekends you might find me cooking or dancing or cooking AND dancing. And then getting the marinara stains out of my shirt....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Poaching eggs. Really it is something to behold.
- (related to that) Biscuits. I'm considering selling biscuits out of a station wagon At Art Murmur
- My Two-Lane Highway Passing skill is something to behold. I've really become one with the Automatic Tranmission Kickdown feature.
- Singing along to the insane number of 1960s R&B songs I know the lyrics to and don't have to be drunk to sing along to.
-(Related to that) I never have to be on a controlled substance to let loose and have a great time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would have to say my ability to twist my face into a variety of emotions. Don't let the stony faced profile pictures fool you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
And... these are great conversation starters.... go ahead and ask.

For a quick blast of what I listen to though Click Here

And I was an avid Mad Men watcher until, well... this season. Bonus points for someone that'll help me catch up.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6) Access to my music collection, be it my iPod or the thousands of CDs, LPs, 45s and Mixtapes that have been a part of my life since I bought Diana Ross & The Supremes Greatest Hits Vol. II with my first official $10 allowance in 1987. Yeah, I came out to my parents indirectly when I was 5 in the cassette section of The Wherehouse
5) Butter and Mayo, Margarine is evil and a Dry Sandwich is a sin
4) A Hot Shower
3) A Daily Horoscope, So I can blame something else for what goes wrong for the day. When things go right it's all about me being proactive.
2) Hetch Hetchy Water
1) Something to laugh at daily.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Way too many things, Interrupt me so I'm not living in my head so much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating. At the Royal Jokers Giant Burger Cruise Night or Sleeping. I'm a "Saturday Night on the town" kinda person.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I fell off the front porch once chasing after the Ice Cream Truck. When I was 27.
You should message me if
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You have a question or two.