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Go_a_la_mode

53 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Law school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
It's hard to describe oneself, but I'm told that I am grounded, positive, social and a gracious host. I'd like to think I have a warm smile and kind eyes. I'm a fan of old school manners, fortunate to be well educated and well traveled.

Whether at home or away, I enjoy meeting new people and getting their impressions on great local cultural places, restaurants, city/country life, etc.... You never know what might happen if you start a dialogue with someone new or commit a random act of kindness.

A fan of fun food and travel shows and several edgy cable TV series, I tend to see a lot of films and enjoy the wit, snark and humor on the BBC.

I'm interested in all forms of visual and performing arts, creativity, style and design, with a discerning eye for well made things and fine details. While I love finely made, quality "things," I am more focused on heart centric and spiritual experiences. When I finished grad school I took a trip around the world for a year to many places from Asia to the Europe.

I want a romantic connection and believe in good communication. It's important to be an active listener

If you enjoy season tickets to the Ballet, the Symphony, the Theater, ping pong Monday nights at the YMCA, the Theater, a monthly evening of live Jazz or other fun cultural pursuits, count me in.

I love being out on the town, at home, in the woods and traveling to adventurous destinations far and wide.

I tend to be good with tools and fixing things around the house.

A total foodie at heart - I love to cook, eat all types of cuisines and tend to entertain at home quite a bit. I also love to dine out, from the foodie couture venues to the Mom and Pop ethnic kitchens. For me it's ALL about the food and good company;).

Seeking a partner who is similarly open, romantic, playful and gregarious and who enjoys and nurtures social synergy with old friends and new, someone who likes to meet people on the journey and grow lasting relationships. I value integrity, honor, reliability, good manners and loyalty. A little decadence is nice too:)

I am "healthy" and seek the same in a companion.

I'm not looking for a fling with women or to be a side distraction from their primary relationship. I seek someone worthy of trust, affection and passion who seeks the same. I would cherish something real, warm, connected and enduring.

Even though I have no kids, I understand, respect and support the priorities of raising them.

THE FINE PRINT: I think it generally best to exchange a couple of emails and then meet and see if there is any chemistry. If it's hard for you to make and/or keep plans, then let's not waste our time. I suggest we meet in a casual place for 30 minutes or so, and if there is a mutual connection, then phones numbers can be exchanged, with, hopefully, lots of fun conversations to follow....

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What I’m doing with my life
Seeking the harmonious path and a life soul mate with love and mutual respect. Public service. Building stuff. Eating and traveling well. Looking for joy, warmth and connection with that special someone.
I’m really good at
Creating good relationships, affection, communication, participation, designing and fixing stuff, cooking, traveling to exotic places and conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, well spoken, kind, cultured, intellectual and stable. And perhaps the sparkle in my hazel greens:)
The six things I could never do without
Good tea
My gizmo
Cooking up a storm
Sweet fury creatures
Family and friends
Good art/design in all of its many forms
Music and language
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How we find joy, peace and meaning in life and long lasting relationships. Manifesting good connections with others. The marvels/creations of all forms of organic intellegence. Oh, and where to eat great food and fun travel locales are in there too:-)
On a typical Friday night I am
There are no typical Friday nights, but I'm open to adopting a worthy ritual if you've got one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll "plead the 5th" for now....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are honest, confident, healthy, kind, social, inquisitive, irreverant, feminine and playful. You like to take good care of yourself. You seek a well balanced man with a mixture of old world and new world sensibilities. You have your act together and don't need to be rescued. You have artistic sensibilities, style, a unpredictable sense of humor and enjoy seeking out and sharing the tastiest cuisines and libations of the world with old and new friends. You value and are willing to work on your relationships. You are affectionate, cuddly and a little decadent. You lean to the left politically. You like yourself.