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39 • Carshalton, UK • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 2:14pm
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body type
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from high school
- Has kids
- English (Fluently)
I am fun-loving, chatty, honest, dependable, romantic and generous! I love to socialise, especially as I now have more free time since my work load has reduced and my children have become more independent!
I'm very laid back and take life in my stride. Things haven't been easy but I try to get out of life what I can. I'm kind and gentle hearted. I'm generous of my time, money and heart, which can often lead to people taking advantage but I'm learning to be stronger.
I'm generally carefree, easy going and fun. I love being active, I enjoy food and socialising. I'm not a sun worshipper and much prefer hikes or camping. My love of music and camping means I love combining the two and going to festivals, or enjoying (others) singing around a camp fire.
I'm into Indie Rock Music and love going to gigs and the odd rock/metal festival. I come from a background of 70/80's rock, grunge and indie but my tastes vary from The Doors, The Turtles to Iron Maiden, Metalica to Pearl Jam, Alice in Chains to Queens of the Stone Age, Pulp and Blur. I like the movies, at home and out. I watch Sci-fi, Fantasy, Comic book and cult movies but I do have a soft spot for old movies, romances and musicals.
I love to read, mainly Fantasy books such as books by Raymond E Feist or supernatural/horror romance by authors like Kim Harrison.
I watch TV programmes like Charmed, Buffy and Angel, Chuck, Grey's Anatomy, True Blood, Heroes, Lost, Cougar Town, Scrubs, Two and a half men, Supernatural, Sons of Anarchy, Happy Ending's, New Girl, Walking Dead, and the like ;)
Now my children are teenagers I find myself living my life more for myself and feel the world is my oyster. I'm loving how my life is but feel I could still do more, see more and experience more. I'd love to meet someone who wants to experience more from life and learn new things. Dating is new to me and although that's my end goal I love meeting people and making friends. Friendship first is very important to me.
And if you believe in astrological signs, well then I'm a Leo and often very typical and I have Virgo rising. In the Chinese horoscope I'm a rabbit, which means I'm a peace keeper and caring.
I'm also a single mum of 2 wonderful children, both boys who are coming into their own. Scary really as I don't know much about being a teenage boy!!!
I pretty much spend my time looking after them, working, socialising with friends down the pub or at a gig and once in a while spending some time on myself :)
I'd ideally like to get out there and do more and as my children become older things get easier. I don't drive which is a real draw back, especially as I like to go camping.
I'd also like to start challenging myself in my occupation too. I took some time out from a stressful, time consuming job to be around for my children more and have some time for myself and now, as usual, I want more!
Things people don't always notice, my tattoos (I have 3 at the moment) or that I don't have anything pierced, not even my ears...
Movies: I don't like to list countless movies, I prefer to focus on the geners instead! Cult, Sci-Fi, Fantasy,Comic Book, Romance or RomCom and good old fashioned musicals (guilty pleasure)
Music: Indie rock/grunge/metal; like, Pearl Jam, Foo Fighters, Alice in Chains, Muse, Sound Garden, Janes Addiction, Screaming Trees, Pixies, Metallica, Skid Row, Black Crows, Stone Temple Pilots, GnR, Motley Crue, Iron Maiden, Nirvana, The Doors, Aerosmith, Eagles of Death Metal, Queens of the Stone Age, Faith No More, Audio Slave, Radiohead, etc.
Food: Curry is always good. I like spicy food, hearty and wholesome foods, lots of vegetables and you can't go wrong with a [salad] either!!??!!
My hair straightners - cos I'm crap with hair!
London Rockin' Rollers
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