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47 Ypsilanti, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Let's see. I am a middle aged man with delusions of a younger frame of mind. I like to think I can still have fun, no matter what crowd I am with. I have one daughter who is the light of my life and never ceases to amaze me with her learning.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently, it is nothing but school. I recently got accepted into the College of Education at EMU and am, hopefully, on the home stretch to get my teaching degree.

The other big news in my life is that, within the last 4 months, I have lost a total of 45 lbs. It has all been through portion control, and I'm feeling great because of it. But, in my opinion, I still have a ways to go.

Other than that, I get out when I can and am looking for either a movie partner or just a simple cohort in crime.
I’m really good at
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being a cornicopia of useless knowledge. LOL Yuu want to know who said what in that episode of Star Trek, where Kirk did a shoulder roll to the left side? You want to debate the current Avengers round-up? What GOOD EATS episode is worth a watch?? (Hint: all of them) I'm your man.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If you know me, then it's "Wow Matt, how much have you lost?" Or "You are looking good." All I can say to that is that I am trying my best.
Other than that, probably my sense of humor.. I've also been told I have nice eyes..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh boy. Here is where you can run.. LOL

Books: Still read comic books. Yes, I know, run screaming.. Still here? Well, good, because they are a viable form of literature, and can have some amazing stories and art work. I also have read most of the DragonLance series and Forgotten Realms.

Movies: I am a dyed in the wool sci fi nut. Especially the classics. Forbidden Planet, Creature From the Black Lagoon, Star Trek, Gojira. These are my favorites. And I have a serious soft spot for the large charcoal colored mutant lizard.

Shows: I have been doing light opera and comic opera for over 20 years now. So, I love to sing and act. BUT, I now realize that shows meant TV LOL. Good Eats, Chopped, Archer, Sherlock, Supernatural, Venture Brothers and Cutthroat Kitchen. Also an old fan of Star Trek (TOS, TNG, DS9), Deadliest Warrior, and Man vs. Food.

Music: Classical, opera, country, top 40, alternative..... You know, I will listen to just about anything EXCEPT for rap and hip hop. Can't stand those. Oh, and I have discovered a new love for Irish Pub Music. Listen to Gaelic Storm and you will get an idea. I am a big fan of 50's, not so much the 60's and 70's, almost all of the 80's, most 90's and 00's. Enjoy Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, Pink, some of Gaga, 3 Doors Down, .. to be honest, I don't even really know the names of most of the bands I like LOL

Food: George Carlin once said a picky eater is a euphemism for "Big Pain in the Ass". That's me. I am pretty much a meat and potatoes guy. But, I love to cook Italian, and have started to experiment with cooking Chinese. And my lasagna is famous on 2 continents.. (and if that isn't a conversation starter, I don't know what is.. LOL)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In lieu of things like oxygen and food..?? hmmmm.

1 my daughter
2 some form of entertainment
3 my phone
4 a nice comfy bed
5 a nice warm to hot shower every morning
6 my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why does no one ever seem to answer messages? LOL. I mean, even if it's just to simply say you aren't interested. And it's not just this site. But wait? If that's true, then maybe it's not the sites but me. Oh no.... too much thought into this dating stuff lol. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday's? Haven't figured anything out yet. BUT... Wednesday's you can usually find me at Tower Inn for karaoke yay
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Yes. I grew up enjoying Godzilla films. Although, I guess that's not so private since most of my friends know this about me and, yet, they still accept me LOL Honestly, if you haven't seen the 1st one in its original Japanese... It's not just a monster movie. They were trying to make a statement. Yes, they were...
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If this profile hasn't scared you off.

If you don't smoke. (my one and only real dealbreaker)

You are looking to meet a nice guy, cause I'm looking to meet a nice gal. Maybe we can mix?

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