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GoldLion_yyy

22 / F / straight / Single

Des Moines, Iowa

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You ever. . .

Ever had the problem of thinking you were weird, or crazy, messed up in some fashion you didn't know how to explain?

Ever been made all better by meeting people that are all just as jacked up as you are? 

I mean, I still think I'm a little cuckoo, but hey. The shoe fits, and not just on me.

Ever had the problem of thinking you were weird, or crazy,messed up in some fashion you didn't know how to explain?

Ever been made all better by meeting people that are all just asjacked up as you are? 

I mean, I still think I'm a little cuckoo, but hey. The shoefits, and not just on me.

You ever. . .

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Do smart people necessarily have greater potential to change the world?
  • Yes
  • No
You've seen Idiocracy, right?
Do smart people necessarily have greater potential tochange the world?
  • Yes
  • No
You've seen Idiocracy, right?

Regarding my Children

They were recently used as an excuse to lose interest. This upset me for two reasons.

Reason One: Saying something to me like, "I'm not ready for commitment with someone that has children" when we've been dating for a month is irksome. I never intended to introduce them to anyone that I'd been dating for at least a year. I'm a responsible parent, and a responsible dater. If someone asked to meet them that might be ok, but otherwise, you're (i'm using "you" loosely, here) not meeting them until you basically love me.

Reason Two: Something tells me that this is going to happen often. Not saying anything against men, but some really do look for an easy way out of things, and that bothers me. They'll be thinking they don't like me for some reason, so, they'll decide they don't want to see me anymore, and instead of telling me the real reason, they'll say something about me having kids and it's just "too much" and they're "not ready" or some other form of BS.

So please, save me some trouble, and don't insult my intelligence as a woman or my integrity as a mother.

They were recently used as an excuse to lose interest. Thisupset me for two reasons.

Reason One: Saying something to me like, "I'm not ready forcommitment with someone that has children" when we've been datingfor a month is irksome. I never intended to introduce them toanyone that I'd been dating for at least a year. I'm a responsibleparent, and a responsible dater. If someone asked to meet them thatmight be ok, but otherwise, you're (i'm using "you" loosely, here)not meeting them until you basically love me.

Reason Two: Something tells me that this is going to happenoften. Not saying anything against men, but some really do look foran easy way out of things, and that bothers me. They'll be thinkingthey don't like me for some reason, so, they'll decide they don'twant to see me anymore, and instead of telling me the real reason,they'll say something about me having kids and it's just "too much"and they're "not ready" or some other form of BS.

So please, save me some trouble, and don't insult myintelligence as a woman or my integrity as a mother.

Regarding my Children

Boys from Kansas

I guess i picked the wrong state to live in because you all just seem like the nicest smartest pick of the bunches.
I guess i picked the wrong state to live in because you all justseem like the nicest smartest pick of the bunches.
Boys from Kansas
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