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  • Ages 25-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 14
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Art Director - I get to solve creative problems all day. I feel so lucky!

Surfer - I love surfing at dawn when the world is asleep still. There is a peace during this time that is magical.

Burner - This incredible event that pushes the boundaries of how we relate to one another with awesome parties, art, culture and unexpected interactions.

INFJ - More like an ambivert but lean more toward introversion. N-Knowing. F-feeling, J-judging.

Yoga and Pilates practitioner - I am obsessed over alignment. It's weird I know.

Long time Lindy Hopper/Swing Dancer. I used to run a long running weekly swing dance in San Francisco. It's still going under new management. That makes me so proud.

I been loving dancing to EDM. The freedom, spirit and relentless beat.

Born in LA. Came up to San Francisco for art school and never looked back.
I lived in San Francisco for over 9 years and now residing in Oakland for the past 4 and loving it. I love the bay area so much. A world class city, amazing restaurants, the Pacific Ocean, the bridges, the bay, redwoods, music and culture. After more than 13 years here. I still gush about it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a designer/art director. I help to create the visual voice of a musical brand. I love my job! I was teaching design a few years ago and I hope to get back to it soon. I miss sharing and creating with students.

Connecting with nature whether hiking in my backyard in the Oakland Hills or chasing waves up and down the coast.

Doing yoga, pilates and meditating. These things are crucials and fundamental to me now post back surgery. I feel really blessed to regain my health. I surely won't take it for granted.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping up with friends
Keyboard shortcuts
Creating projects
Loving on my cat
Eating amazing food
Buying sneakers
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm ambiguously asian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Start Where You Are by Pema Chodron. I tend to read a lot of nonfiction. I'm currently reading Brene Brown's Daring Greatly.

Movie: Grand Budapest Hotel, This is Spinal Tap, everything Coen brothers, Wes Anderson, David O. Russell, and Christopher Guest. Guilty pleasures: Big Trouble Little China and 80s action

Shows: Northern Exposure, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, and Parks & Recreation.

Music: Nina Simone, Gene Harris, Jimmy Smith, Count Basie, Sam Cooke, Otis Redding, Marvin Gaye, Aretha Franklin, Jamiroquai, Raphael Saadiq, Aloe Blacc, The Roots, A Tribe Called Quest, Mos Def, De La Soul, Common, Kishi Bashi, Little Dragon, Miike Snow, Black Keys, Vampire Weekend. The list is endless!

Currently listening to: Jungle, Justin Townes Earle, Kelly McFarling, Discovery, Aloe Blacc, Oddisee, Lucius, Hot Chip, Lonely Boy. Again the list is endless.

I am an NPR junkie! Radiolab, This American Life, Fresh Air, Science Friday, Wait wait, Don't Tell Me, Sunday Puzzle, NPR Music blog, and Code Switch blog.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Ocean
My Cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living life in a meaningful way
Juggling my current projects
Making art for my new place
Personal growth
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no typical Friday nights. Sometimes its mellow. Sometimes it's mischievious. When it's mellow, it's often because there is an incoming swell and I'm dreaming of perfect A-frame waves at dawn.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not your average [fill in the blank].
You should message me if
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I'm looking to casually connect with people and see where it leads.

You are a creative or have an understanding that creatives can't turn it off.

Women who like good food, getting out in nature, going out dancing, museums, seeing shows/movies, and/or cuddling with a sweet cat.