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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 30
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
When drinking
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
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This is real life. I'm a seeker for a better world, willing to walk unconventional tracks. I am a huge swimmer, I love my body. I'm a neuroscientist. I love short sentences. I lived in various countries and cities, I changed my profession. Constant change makes me feel alive. I'm in a wheel chair (see photos), and I don't have a problem with it.

I reduce life to the essence: I look after a beautiful Bernese farmhouse, try to live self-sufficiently from my big garden, make menus from what I find in the garden, look after the animals, learn to play the guitar, I heat with wood, I write messages in the middle of the night if I feel like, I just found out that I have to write a book (partly for self-therapy), I avoid to use the car as much as possible, ask people what's their favorite thing in life (what's yours?), prepare to go to Burning Man next year, explore new music (since a year I'm quite into techno), visit clubs in Bern, Basel, and Zurich, where great Dj's are playing, I drive there in my old Volkswagen Bus and sleep in it after the party, I change my life/behavior/attitude if I think it's necessary, think about whether I should start working as a psychiatrist again, make new friends, sometimes I am in doubt about everything, sometimes I feel deeply blissed.

This is beauty:

And this as well:

Random quote:
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming—Wow…What a Ride!" Robert Wickman
What I’m doing with my life
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Self-sufficient farming and play the guitar during the week, partying during the week end.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being open for novelty.
Reducing my life to the essence.
Being really honest.
Being social.
Being reliable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Many people say that I have this positive aura around me, though I'm not esoterica at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Many things I like are actually in German (although I'm not German)

Books: Zundels Abgang, Am Hang, Bis Bald

Movies: Festen, Gegen die Wand, Apocalypse now, Goodfellas, Idioten, Die Fetten Jahre sind vorbei.

Music: Progressive, minimal, D&B and Goa, 80s, Depeche Mode, Stiller Haas, Sophie Hunger, Kermit Ruffins.

Food: Spaghetti Bolognese, Thai food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
O2, water, food - the essentials, sorry not six items. I add satisfaction to this, as I recognized that I can't be without it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The revolution.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out dancing. I love to move my body to music and express my feelings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a boy, I once peed in my bedside cabinet when I was having a fewer because I thought it's the toilet.
You should message me if
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You are into true connection.
You want to discuss life and beyond.
You love that I shave my head and my european accent.
You are open to explore new universes.