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pUnforgettable

27 North Hollywood, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One day I'll come up with the perfect blurb to capture my unique and multifaceted personality; one that communicates my gentleness-informed-by-strength, sense of humor, and desire to learn & grow.

Today is not that day.

They say "There are two mantras in life: 'Yuck' and 'Yum'." I'm trying hard to be about the latter.

I'm not looking for anything terribly serious at the moment. However, I know you could get a hook up or a booty call anywhere if that's all you wanted. Please trust that I'm not here to waste your time or mine and I'm genuinely interested in meeting someone great.

I want to spend time with someone smart, fun, funny, and kind. Someone who is interested and interesting. Whose not afraid be sincere. So let's hang out, get together, make something happen.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to LA from metro Detroit to follow my creative calling and seek my fortune (lololol). Writing and directing is what I want to do but in the meantime I'm producing videos for a non profit, various YouTubers, and working crew gigs.

I have a passion for carpentry and woodworking, having some luck making money at it lately.

I love music but never learned to play an instrument as a kid so now I'm learning to play piano & the drums.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, talking, driving, ping pong, handshakes, getting people together, building things, spirited debate, thoughtful discussion, volleyball (ok not really), swimming, getting all of the groceries into the house in one trip, making people laugh, drawing, writing, skiing, enjoying myself, stirring the pot, triumph in the face of adversity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately it's my hair but for a long time it was my sense of humor and positive attitude
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I want to hear all about the stuff you like, and then have smiling arguments about it.

Books: Tell me what I should read, I've fallen out of the habit. I love graphic novels, sci-fi, trendy thinky stuff like Malcolm Gladwell, human origins stuff and also last time I read the Harry Potter series I was 24 and cried at least once per book.

Movies: This should be a whole discussion but let's say my top 5 are Amelie, Fight Club, In Bruges, No Country For Old Men, and There Will Be Blood.

TV Shows: Anything binge-worthy - Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Mad Men, Girls, Community, 30 Rock, The Office. Developed a taste for shitty reality TV like Millionaire Matchmaker and any flipping show.

Music: I find Rufus Wainwright's version of "Hallelujah" to be the superior version and when I hear "bum bum bum ba da da bum" I get excited for "Under Pressure" not "Ice Ice Baby". Like with people my musical taste is hard to explain but it's fairly specific and I know it when I see it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and Family, my ambition, a sense of striving and progression, novelty, a creative outlet, something to read/watch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The big stuff like Life, Death, and Infinity but little stuff like potential side projects, or whether or not my life goals are realistic and attainable or some delusional grandiose pipe dream. Whether everyone at the bar checking their phone is just trying not to look lonely. Then I check my phone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, at the movies, loitering on a friend's porch, at a comedy show, playing "Settlers of Catan", at home watching Netflix wishing I had something to do but not wanting to do anything, really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm trying to learn the lessons that tragedy is teaching me, and live with joy and purpose and compassion and be better in general.

Sometimes when I'm browsing OKC profiles I'll think "Cheer up, weirdos! This is supposed to be fun."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart, creative, adventurous, and have a fun sense of humor that strays into 'goofy' from time to time. If you know the value of honesty. If your attitudes around sex don't paint it as exploitive and transactional. If you're not afraid. And if you have impeccable taste in men.