........for being Alone"
Would we like to find Mr./Ms. Right and live happily ever after? Of course most of us would...but at this stage of our lives as we've come to know every detail of what works for us and what doesn't, it's really hard to find that crazy compatibility with someone else! Therefore, I propose a whole new attitude to this inane world of Internet dating:
Romance comes from feelings one only finds by chance...there is no wish list of attributes that automatically renders the heart susceptible...and funny enough, many couples I've known who ended up loving one another madly didn't have that Cupid's Arrow love-at-first-sight feeling. So, with that in mind:
I want to meet someone who isn't so rigid with specifics regarding what they *initially* hope to find in a man, because no one is ever really going to satisfy you if you are looking for a list which is a 'thing', not a person.
I too want to open myself up to a different experience, maybe with a type of women I might not have sought out in the past, because let's face it...if my past selection methods had worked all that betchin'...I wouldn't be here right now, would I?
So I'm not going to come out and say specific things I like, OR that I hope to find. I'm going to leave it to fate, and to another person of the feminine persuasion to find agreement with the idea of letting ourselves be directed by something other than expectations and "lists"...to something hopefully more meaningful than what those ways have brought us in the past.