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40 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:31pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am just very optimistic, hopeful, easy-going and positive. Why not be? Living life to experience every moment as it happens is what I strive for. I do have goals. I have short term and long term and have no entitlement of expecting things to just come to me. I believe I can do anything I set my mind to if I am will to do the work that is required to do it. I understand the payoff of hard work and the taste of being successful at something.
I love to be challenged and am open minded enough to listen and consider what is being discussed, experienced, or even what is close to my core.
I am turned on by intelligence like everyone else says. But, if by intelligence you are thinking, a complete knowledge of your craft or skill, I am thinking much broader. I think that is awesome and shows passion or drive. However, in the manner I am discussing, I am talking about someone that is open minded, can listen, and learn from other individuals. I don't mean blindly at all! Rather, with research and consideration.
For now, that is probably enough of a summary.
What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to live with no regrets. I work hard at my job and I take good care of myself mentally and physically! I go to the gym every morning and yoga after work. I meditate. I am also taking as many opportunities as I can grab a hold of with excitement and a childlike wonder.
I’m really good at
skipping rocks
hanging by a thread
and... putting the toilet seat back down
The first things people usually notice about me
That I can be off the wall.
That I am unnoticeable
(a Joke, haha?)
That I don't have blue eyes like I do in one of my photos
or that I seem very comfortable with meeting someone
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Kurt Vonnegut as an author ( a big fan )
Chuck Palahniuk as well
I read a lot of articles on various random things
Favorite movie is True Romance ( I have just always said that so I'm sticking to it)
My music would be Yonder Mountain String Band, Eric Clapton, Deep House, and yes Phish (though I rarely listen to them), I love jazz, piano music, all sorts. Depending on my mood or the mood I want to be in.
I love live shows.
The six things I could never do without
The opposite gender people
Mexican Food/ Thai Food/ Korean Yum!
A shower (Though I did work on a fishing boat in Alaska and only got like two showers in a one month period) I know, disgusting!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being mindful and present in every moment
The humor I see in things
On a typical Friday night I am
Just happy it is Friday night whatever I'm doing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Mom, I'm the one that broke the Coffee table when I was Six. It wasn't my brother. Whew! Good to get that off my chest.

Oh.... This is very private but I was self born. I have no biological mother or father.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Okay.. This is a wish list not a requirement list of course........
You are easygoing
Take care of yourself (physically and mentally)
optimistic (you know, glass half full and I'm thankful to even have a glass of ?)
and see yourself as a unique individual
Enjoy humor
Truly care about others well-being
Understand I have a 16 year old daughter who lives with her mother
Can communicate thoughts and feelings
Are easy on the eyes