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40 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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My self-summary
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Was having trouble with writing this part so I enlisted the help of my friends to write a little blurb about me.

"Loyal to a fault. Her stories will charm you. her photos will amuse you. short-tempered, just ask the ladies at the theatre. just don't ask her to cuddle" -Fawn

"Infectious laugh. Funny as hell. A bit bohemian. Enjoys wine. Loves her friends and her dog"- Melissa

"Part doll, part gangster's moll. The girl that you most want to cut class with and go smoke behind the gym. Able to make any inanimate object look sexier just by holding it in her hand. She is the only ingredient you need to make any event a party- just add Nico and stir" -Patricia

"has great taste, especially in friends" -Colleen

"Behind intoxicating curves and voluptuous lips lies a tenacious spirit and a touch of silliness. If you're lucky you might even see her soft side." -Stephanie

"I talk with Babies all day my mind is mush. I'm not creative anymore. Can't you just tag me in Stephanie's quote?"- Allison

"A great friend. If you ever needed a body buried she would help you and not ask any questions." -Ana
What I’m doing with my life
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Making myself a better, stronger, happier person than I was yesterday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Arbitrating between friends, detecting bullshit, always seeing the silver lining, hosting gatherings, making you a sandwich and a dry gin martini.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My lips, I've been told they are quite enticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Just Kids, Geek Love, Handmaid's tale, The World According To Garp, Lolita, The Wind-up Bird Chronicles, Pablo Neruda and Anais Nin. Reading is sexy. I think John Waters said it best with “We need to make books cool again. If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them.”

Movies: Wes Anderson, Hitchcock, Tarantino, foreign horror movies, thrillers with that surprise twist, french romcoms and anything that was cheesy in the 80's

Shows: Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Arrested Development, 30 Rock, The Wire, Mad Men, American Horror Story, Orange is the New Black. I am so far behind on most shows, waiting for the flu so I can finally get caught up on some of these.

Music: Tom Petty, Jack White, Nick Cave, Ty Segall, Twin Shadow, Iggy Pop, Ryan Adams, Keren Ann, Kurt Vile, J. Mascis, Jose Gonzalez (Junip), Yo La Tengo, Gary Clarke Jr., Nina Simone, Broken Social Scene, Tom Waits, Velvet Underground, Morphine- that is just the icing. I see a few live shows a month, it's my thing. And a big fuck you to that guy that asked if I was a little too old to be seeing live shows, if Willie Nelson is still touring then I am still going to go to shows.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sweet little old dog, a comfortable bed, whiskey after a long hard day, friends that open me up to new ideas and experiences, yoga and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
love, art, music, intimacy, food and travel. What else is there to think about?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I stole a dolphin eraser from Sea World when I was 8, but Sea World kind of deserved it.
You should message me if
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If you think I would like you. I like people that are comfortable with themselves and happy in life. I like people that are open minded and don't go through life judging others. I like people that can just let go and be able enjoy the moment. If you are this way then I might like you.