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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Creative and quirky intellectual seeks same. Open to finding something platonic, casually sexual, or long-term. And anything in between. I also don't mind first dates that result in nothing further, provided you can be warmly forthcoming about it, like I am* (see below). I enjoy getting to know someone new, one-on-one, no matter the outcome.

I'm kind, curious, articulate, often silly, and a great conversationalist. Also? I'm kind of a biter.

Who I'm looking for (in the long-term): Besides the virtues most of us seek, what I really need in a partner is mutual inspiration. I want someone with fierce, intellectual curiosity paired with an innocent and open mind. Someone with a brilliant and unique (even odd) imagination. Someone who expresses ideas in a way that no other human being can, or would. Someone who appreciates those same qualities in me. That's the person I'll still love talking to when I'm 80 years old.
What I’m doing with my life
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Mainly, settling back into the area after a few dubious years at grad school. I consider myself an artist, first and foremost, but thankfully I also have a stimulating day job that pays.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, reciting long clips of dialogue from movies, giving specific compliments, other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tell me it's my smile, but more likely it's the dynamite strapped to my chest.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why you're 11% my enemy. And whether that means I must destroy you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm frequently told (not that I ever ask) that I am well-endowed. So. There's one less thing I need to worry about, I guess.

I also don't drink anymore, but don't mind at all if you do. I still dance, sing karaoke, and enjoy bars and parties. Just not as often as I did in my 20's (well, the karaoke frequency may have increased since then).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re interested. Seriously. I rarely make first contact anymore, mostly because things seem to go better (I don't know why) with women who have reached out to me first. Regardless of my interest, I admire any woman who's bold enough to shirk outdated courtship roles, and make a first move.

As I mentioned earlier, I also don't mind going on a date or two and having it go no further. But I do value the ability and willingness to be forthcoming. Even if I'm not interested in something more, I'm flattered and grateful whenever someone follows up for another date, and I never leave such a compliment hanging with no response.

I appreciate being treated the same way. Sending a text or email that politely says thanks, but I don't feel a spark, seems utterly simple to me. Someday I'll rewrite the book of basic dating etiquette (just as soon as I find it).

In the meantime, if any of this resonates with you, then we already share a few important values. Holler!