Be bold. I won't be the first to contact you. Historically, I've found that things tend to go much better in my dating life when the woman expresses interest first, online or otherwise. Not sure why that is, but I've decided to play to my strength. Besides, if a woman has the confidence to make her interest known first, it's usually a huge turn-on. The sexiest woman I ever dated asked me for *my* phone number, and I nearly drooled on myself. So if you're interested, shoot me an e-mail.
FUN STUFF! When we sit side by side you'll have to be on my right because my left ear doesn't work (never has). As I grow comfortable around you my stories will get longer and I'll quote movies too much. I'm insightful, ask intelligent questions and will make you feel as interesting as you are.
Hopefully you'll think I'm interesting too.
I'm ambitious. I value criticism but I'm a glutton for positive feedback, because affecting somebody with my words, written or spoken, is the most exhilarating feeling I know. I'm happier when the sun's out longer, love great movies, and taking jokes with friends as far as they can go, often killing them in the process... the jokes, not my friends.
I'm very confident, yet not remotely arrogant. I assert myself when I think I'm right, but will admit when I'm wrong. I'm spontaneous, intelligent, creative, sarcastic and gregarious. I'm also *consistently* generous and kind. I don't have a mean streak, and I'm not "just a little bit of an asshole." If any of this sounds boring or unsexy -- like I'm too predictable, or not a challenge or not a fix-it project -- then I'm not for you (nor do I get you, or the many girls like you).
Who I'm looking for: You're not just bright, but clever. You often challenge the way I think, and you make me laugh. You're not afraid to be the first or the only one laughing (a pretty laugh is also good). You love to learn, and you hope that never changes. You're grounded, and practical (more than me, even), but have a creative side. You keep busy, need lots of personal time and are not afraid to tell me so, and when. You're willing to drag me out occasionally because you know I'll be fun once I get there --- I'll do the same for you. You're confident enough to acknowledge your weaknesses and own your mistakes. You don't need to be rich to be happy, and would sooner spend money on a plane ticket than on a car. You're ambitious and strive to be of service to others in some way.