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43 Dallas, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost: NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR KINK. If that is all you desire, please move on as I'm certain you can find what you are looking for either via this site or the myriad of others out there.

Happy in my own skin and enjoying my life, but looking for a partner in crime or just someone to share things with from time to time. Snark, empathy/compassion are the things I'm best known for by those those who love fact, those are the reasons they love me so. Get to know me a bit and I'll consider providing references...

I have a vast fondness for each of the following: (in no real particular order)
Music (just about all kinds), Art, Literature, Photography
Mid-Century style, small odd European cars, motorcycles and scooters
My Dog, darkness, cooking, useless knowledge, NPR
LOVE, passion (romantic and motivational), the universe
...and much, much more.

I am always curious, always thinking about brain rarely leaves me alone (it seems only when I most need it) and truly just being and learning how to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Thinking. Far too much! About far too many things! But enjoying it, and that's all that really matters, right?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
People. No, really! I enjoy people and I enjoy learning how they work. (Though, to be completely honest, I SUCK at playing the games that come along with human interaction)

Need a plan for something? I'm pretty good at helping to formulate them, particularly when something other than the 'norm' is desired/needed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been informed on a few occasions that I have very good diction, language skills, etc. In fact, on many occasions I've had to argue the facts that, "Yes, I am American", and "No really...I was born and bred right here in Dallas, Tx. I promise." (note: it's most often been foreigners that refuse to believe either of these points)

At some point, most people tell me I've lost an earring...

My size and eyes...

Oh, and I'm often told that I'm too nice. I'm not certain what constitutes 'too' in that statement...I think people just aren't used to someone being nice and so they find it odd...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: This list would take forever to compile, so I will say only that my tastes are varied. But I do have a few loves that come up over and over...just too many to list.

Music: This list would be longer than the books. I prefer form and content over genres...I like music that makes me think...takes me to another time or place...and that could be just about anything. I will admit a bit of an obsession with the likes of Amanda Palmer. My overall play list is pretty all inclusive...opera to jazz to oldies to contemporary snark to dark-wave to Broadway to folk to just about anything if it makes me feel or works my brain...lyrically or musically

Movies: Again...I like film that inspires me...makes me think. Dream for an Insomniac, Lost In Translation; Garden State, Majority of One, Auntie Mame (Rosalind Russell) and Tank Girl <-- I want to be them when I grow up...

Food: I will try most anything at least once. And I know that just because I don't like it now, doesn't mean I won't in the future. Find a passion for Asian at the moment, but who knows what tomorrow holds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Realistically, there is little that couldn't do without...but many things I would most certainly miss:

People - required for incredible conversation and learning
ALL forms of art and the ability to create
Interesting bars at odd times with regular patrons and some quiet times

The rest, well, while some are necessary to life, those things go without saying...they aren't the things that make a life a life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking! No, really...I tend to over-think thinking.

But mostly, people. Those in my life I love and how to make life a little better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Figuring out what I want to do and looking for someone to share it with...or not. Depends on my mood...a nice night in my favorite bar alone, but enjoying the company around me...or time with my dog and a could be anything really. Got a bright idea to share?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know the sound of one hand clapping...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're okay just being you.
If you understand that epiphanies come to you when you need them.
If you enjoy a good cocktail and conversation.
If something here has intrigued or inspired you.