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43 Dallas, TX Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:43pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost: NOT LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR KINK. If that is all you desire, please move on as I'm certain you can find what you are looking for either via this site or the myriad of others out there.

I know it seems strange, but truly you can think of me as a really good balance of the following:

* Georgia Lass (Dead Like Me) - snark, empathy/compassion, life view (this sums it up pretty well: 'I always thought that I loved Halloween because I got to look behind all those closed doors. But now I see that it's because I was painted with something darker. That I was meant to see the dark, and through the dark...'
~ Georgia Lass
Dead Like Me, Season 2, Episode 15, Haunted

(I know this so well...and it's a beautiful thing.)

* Charlotte Charles (Pushing Daisies) - joy, second chance to live the life you wanted, love, loss and all that makes life worthwhile

* Gregory House (House) - understanding of people and the human condition, addiction to the 'light-bulb' moments, desire to be better or different tomorrow than I am today

How's that for a summary?

To get it out of the way, I've been on this site for probably eight years or so. I originally joining for the questions and tests only while I was still married. However, now I am widowed and it's been long enough now that I'm looking for someone to hang out with...share movies, museums, music and evenings out. I find myself in the process finally of making a life for me, of my own, as I want it to be...join me on my know you want to. Can't say I'm necessarily looking for 'the rest of my life' but I am a firm believer that you have nothing really to lose because you didn't have it to begin with...and I always remain realistically, hopelessly, romantically open.

I have a vast fondness for each of the following:
Literature, Music (all kinds), Art, 50's Furniture, Tiki, My Dog, Darkness, Rockabilly, Small odd European cars, Cooking, Useless Trivia, NPR, LOVE. Passions, Dreams, The Universe, Photography...and much, much more.

I am always curious, always thinking about brain rarely leaves me alone (it seems only when I most need it) and truly just being and learning how to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning each day...each time I think I have some great epiphany about life, the world or the universe, someone or something comes a long to make me re-evaluate and while maybe not change my mind, open myself to further perspectives and possibilities...and that is how I spend my time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My single greatest gift is people...knowing them, loving them.

Being honest and genuine. I never learned, nor do I understand the games people play, so if you want real, I'm your woman.

Knowing little things that will bring someone joy, create a connection of some sort, and doing so only for the sake of making them happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been informed on a few occasions that I have very good diction, language skills, etc. In fact, on many occasions I've had to argue the facts that, "Yes, I am American", and "No really...I was born and bred right here in Dallas, Tx. I promise." (note: it's most often been foreigners that refuse to believe either of these points)

At some point, most people tell me I've lost an earring...

My size and eyes...

Oh, and I'm often told that I'm too nice. I'm not certain what constitutes 'too' in that statement...I think people just aren't used to someone being nice and so they find it odd...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: This list would take forever to compile, so I will say only that my tastes are varied. But I do have a few loves that come up over and over...just too many to list.

Music: This list would be longer than the books. I prefer form and content over genres...I like music that makes me think...takes me to another time or place...and that could be just about anything. I will admit a bit of an obsession with the likes of Amanda Palmer. My overall play list is pretty all inclusive...opera to jazz to oldies to contemporary snark to dark-wave to Broadway to folk to just about anything if it makes me feel or works my brain...lyrically or musically

Movies: Again...I like film that inspires me...makes me think. Dream for an Insomniac, Lost In Translation; Garden State, Majority of One, Auntie Mame (Rosalind Russell) and Tank Girl <-- I want to be them when I grow up...

Food: I will try most anything at least once. And I know that just because I don't like it now, doesn't mean I won't in the future. Find a passion for Asian at the moment, but who knows what tomorrow holds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Realistically, there is little that couldn't do without...but many things I would most certainly miss:
good conversation
ability to create
certain people
a nice dive bar with amazing cocktails and amazing conversations with strangers

The rest, well, while some are necessary to life, those things go without saying...they aren't the things that make a life a life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The lessons we all need to learn, so we don't miss the very best in life:

1) When someone says they love you, don't assume they mean they are in love with you. There are many kinds of love and a big difference between loving and being in love. Sometimes people love you just for who you are, what you do, what you give them, and so much more.

2) Everyone needs a muse or is one. Figure out which you are, and never stop searching for you partner(s).

3) It’s okay to let yourself be It's okay to be loved. (for more info, see number one above)

4) Life can hurt. Love can rip you apart. We lose things, grieve, feel sad...but without any one of these things, we would completely miss so much good in the it's good to feel.

5) Be who you are, who you will...It doesn't really matter what others think, want, or expect of you. But also learn that you can't always be all of you in the everyday. Sometimes you have to adjust to get along in the real world, but it doesn't make you any less you.

6) Don’t ever be afraid to tell someone you love them. Even if they don't understand or appreciate it, you will always feel better having said it out loud...and it makes you stronger, and makes it easier to say the next time.

7) Learn, drink, grow, eat, love, be, do, pray, live, create, dream, sing, give, laugh!!!!!!!!

'It's no longer a dog-eat-dog sort of world, but a dogma-eat-dogma world!'
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Figuring out what I want to do and looking for someone to share it with...or not. Depends on my mood...a nice night in my favorite dive bar alone, but enjoying the company around me...or time with my dog and a could be anything really. Got a bright idea to share?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know the sound of one hand clapping...
You should message me if
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If you've actually made it this deep into my profile. You appreciate the beauty in all of life...the light and the dark.

You find any inspiration in anything you have found here...or you simply want to...

You understand the difference between loving someone and being in love with them.