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38 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Mar 10
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Outgoing (I'm on a first-name basis at my neighborhood haunts), laid back (lived in Berkeley/Oakland and Seattle), edgy (moved back to New York), fun (like my tequila neat), discriminating (the tequila can't be Cuervo), caring (I'm there for my friends in good times and bad).
I love to travel (when I win the lottery: Bali or bust), and my vacation schedule allows me to do so.
When the weather gets warmer I enjoy riding my bike, taking the train up to Cold Spring for a hike, going to Rockaway Beach, and spending time in nature (mountains, rivers, wherever).
I've been blessed with a wonderful family and group of friends.
What I’m doing with my life
As the product of two New York City public school teachers, it was my destiny that I would end up in education--I'm a social worker in the NYC public schools.
I’m really good at
Finding the balance between meaningful work and meaningful play
Mastering the neighborhoods that I live and work in
Walking into a room of strangers and walking out with new acquaintances or friends
Arranging for good meals, whether picking a restaurant (love Vinegar Hill) or planning a home-cooked dinner
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have read everything written by Jumpa Lahiri
Other favorites-David Sedaris, Jonathan Safran Foer, Junot Diaz
(The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao), Jonathan Tropper (This Is Where I Leave You).
Sorry: Murakami leaves me cold.

Movies-I like smaller films (Before Sunrise, Midnight in Paris, Diving Bell and the Butterfly), foreign films (Pedro Almovodar, The Sea Within), raunchy comedies (Baby Mama, Hangover), and vintage '80s (Better Off Dead, Say Anything)

T.V.-Homeland, Dexter, Law and Order SVU, Anthony Bourdain's No Reservations

Music-My musical muses always point me in the right direction--recently Fleet Foxes, Jim James, and Alabama Shakes. I also like Gillian Welch, Neil Young, The Grateful Dead, Mumford and Sons, Nina Simone.

Food-I am continually experimenting in the kitchen. My most recent culinary masterpiece was a mortar and pestle green curry shrimp noodle soup.
I like to host and attend dinner parties and have recently checked out a couple pop up supper clubs.
I'm a believer in farm-to-table--the fewer ingredients I can't understand on a label the better.
The six things I could never do without
My family
The companionship of people I love spending time with
Yoga, to stay balanced
Vacations, with or without a passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my actions affect others.
What was I thinking when I chose not to eat meat for 17 years and how everything really does taste better with bacon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something on the mellow side, mostly likely in Brooklyn.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to ask me when we meet...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a good heart, are down to earth, enjoy good food/drink, have a positive outlook on life, a good sense of humor, like to travel and enjoy the outdoors. You are content with your life and looking for a meaningful relationship.