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45 Winston-Salem, NC Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 18, 2013
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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**That color where purple and blue start to blur together.**Summertime**Being surprised by others’ creativity / ingenuity**Seeing others succeed (especially those who you know deserve it)**Second chance stories **Writing songs.**Making people laugh (besides myself – that one is a given).**Hot rods.**Airshows.**Extreme sports – X Games (motorcycle, BMX)**Playing football.**Watching NFL football (especially The Ravens)**The Korean National Team doing Tae Kwon Do**Unlimited texting and internet**Batman stories**Dry cleaned / pressed clothes**Sunshine**Convertibles with the top down**The perfect song on at the perfect time**Running into an old friend**Cats**Most animals**Seaworld** **Guitars**Drums**Testing limits**Faith**Having faith rewarded**Smiling**Precious hours of sleep**Waking up excited**Succeeding**The beach**Halloween**Christmas Eve**A smell that takes you back to a memory right away**Memories of going flying with my dad as a child**Music outdoors**Art**Art Exhbits**Trains**Black and White Pictures**People who did things first**Used to love to ride motorcycles but lost a good friend to riding and it lost a lot of it's magic for me**

Back stabbing, conniving people**Ungrateful people**Vindictive people**Careless people**New Year’s Eve**Rainy days**Cold weather**Excuses**People who offer problems but never offer solutions**Negative people**Lazy people**Walking through spider webs**Pollen**Eating outdoors**People dying before their time**Children / animals suffering**Elderly being forgotten and ignored**Stepping in gum**Cigarette / cigar smoke**Companies / individuals who knowingly put people at risk**Terrorists**Cults**Hypocrites**Ignorant people who try and convince you how smart they are and are vocal with their opinions that are tragically flawed**
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, keeping an eye on my family and friends to make sure they're always ok, working out in some way, making time to be creative.

I'm in a pretty good place with my career and really would like to have some fun meeting people and catching up on enjoying life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recognizing potential. Looking at things from a different angle. Making people laugh. Bringing people together. Getting things done. Being there for someone I care about when they need me. Recognizing what people do well and praising them for it. Taking time to listen. Being flexible.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm already talking with them and making them laugh. My eyes (blue).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tucker Max books - sorry it's a guilty pleasure. I admittedly don't read many books. I'd rather spend time talking with someone and learning from them than being buried in a book - that's just me.

Movies that make you feel something - pull at your heartstrings, make you think, make you laugh, make you believe.

All kinds of music depending on the mood and moment. I like music that comes from the heart and is real. The genre doesn't matter as much as that it's genuine. Jack Johnson, Jimi Hendrix, Johnny Cash all come to mind (lot of "J"s there).

Food - coffee, habachi chicken, pizza. I like some Chinese, Indian, Mexican, Italian, and American.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to look forward to.
Something to do.
Creativity. (OK, I know that's more than six things, but who's counting?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fun things I want to now catch up on and hopefully have someone to do those things with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On at typical Friday night I'm home with my son. On Saturday night, I'm up for going out and enjoying time with friends or staying in and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Oh come on, isn't it more fun to talk with someone and find these things out yourself?
You should message me if
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You should message me if:
**You're willing to be open and be yourself and not trying to impress**Able to laugh at yourself (goodness knows I do)**Willing to take a chance that having coffee with someone turns into something more**You like being around someone who is open, clear, and direct ( I can be flirty and teasing with the best of them but at the end of the day you'll always know exactly where you stand with me)**Like to smile (and realize it's contagious)**

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