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49 • Alameda, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 38–52
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:48am
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and has cats
In General: Discovering what it is I really want; not just what I have been told I should want. Striving to be be a better human being. Creating more balance, pleasure and well-being in my life.
* I am usually pretty laid back (except when I'm not)
* I prefer hugs rather than handshakes
* I tend to smile a lot
* I have very soft hands
* I am a hairy Jewish man
Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Grosse Point Blank, A League of Their Own, The Truman Show, The Princess Bride, Lord of The Rings, Bound, The Godfather, Chicago, Mr. Hollands Opus, Swordfish, 50 First Dates, The Usual Suspects, Nothing in Common, Longtime Companion, Exit to Eden, Kinky Boots, The Abyss, Shrek, James Bond (older ones) and in general movies with - Jackie Chan, Hugh Grant, Tom Hanks, Gene Hackman, Morgan Freeman, Julianne Moore, Meryl Streep, and Phillip Seymour Hoffman. There are lots more, but that is a quick list.
Music: Andy McKee, Billy Joel, Jackson Browne, Dobie Gray, Harry Chapin, Dana Owens, Vienna Tang, Peter Gabriel, Big Bad VooDoo Daddy, Michael Buble, Chris Botti, Seal, Crosby, Stills, Nash, B-Tribe, Sara Bareilles, Johannes Linstead, Sam and Dave, Garth Brooks, Dixie Chicks, Ottmar Liebert, Plain White T's, Jason Mraz, Liz Wright, Seis Cuerdas, Eve Cassidy, Great Big Sea, James Taylor, The Who, Gipsy Kings, and so many more.
Pets (I have 2 cats)
Great smelling soap/shampoo
Music (Pandora and XM radio)
A good mystery novel
Peet's Coffee in my big travel mug
Really good food
* Earthquake/Disaster Preparedness
*What are the rules and guidelines I have been living by, and do I need them anymore
* How lucky I am to live in such a beautiful area
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