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Gr8OCGuy

58 M Aliso Viejo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Ever evolving... very kind, compassionate and confident.

If you enjoy poetry, read "The Layers" by Stanley Kunitz for insight into my perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment I am selling my business, training for the current marathon/triathlon season and planning for the next chapter in my life... to the extent one can really prepare. 2014 has been an extremely enjoyable year as I balance my passion for athletic activity with an equally strong effort to find the right long-term relationship. Like everything else in life, it will happen when it is meant to.

I am also taking some time to just "be"! To appreciate every aspect of life for its natural beauty and to take the time to enjoy it. My life is a very peaceful space with plenty of room to share with someone having similar interests and desires.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making other people feel welcome and involved.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I listen to them when they speak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My taste for what I read, watch or listen to is varied and dynamic. I gravitate to what I find stimulating or enjoyable at the moment and then simply wallow in all it has to offer.

I welcome recommendations from others as it often leads me down a unique path while providing insight into the person who introduced it... equally fascinating.

Recently finished pieces by Gabor Mate and Matthieu Ricard and David Deida.
Currently reading a number of marathon training, nutrition and physiology books as I pursue a personal goal and "Zero Limits", a spiritual piece reinforcing that life is still perfect even if I don't achieve that goal... :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children, running shoes, healthy food, red wine, books, sunshine... essentialy in that order, but not always.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why there is so much conflict in the world. Unlimited pleasures abound if we would simply respect and embrace one another.

This is an evolving topic so please check back a little later.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Simply chilling. A quiet night to unwind after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Whatever you would like to know. I am an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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If you truly believe what you wrote in your profile and want to meet someone such as you described.