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32 San Francisco, CA Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 7:19am
Asian, Pacific Islander
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Post grad
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Made in the Philippines, matured in the East Coast, and migrated to the West Coast. I am always curious about how others live, think, and feel, and what meanings they derive from their lives. Sometimes I am serious and intense. Other times, I am loud, silly, and goofy. I am deceptively extroverted but a true introvert at heart. But being an introvert doesn't mean I can't be fun, adventurous, and open to experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
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being independent and autonomous, improving people's mental health, teaching graduate courses, being healthy (physically & mentally), taking hip hop and contemporary dance classes, collecting used books, having deep and meaningful conversations with friends, disseminating some social justice or social commentary about our culture on social media, and constantly trying to improve myself
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hip hop dancing, eating sushi, listening to others, getting others to talk about themselves, being empathetic, talking about social justice issues, helping people with their relationship issues, discussing contemporary psychoanalytic theory, losing myself in my own thoughts, and pretending to be good at giving advice
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some say I can have a very serious outlook in life. Others say that I am outgoing, curious, and gregarious. It really depends on the crowd...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lately I've been reading a lot of books on social justice, multiculturalism, and psychoanalysis. Are there any new books, in these topics, that you think I should read/add to my collection?

Movies & Shows: Anything that's going to help me see a different perspective in life. I'd also like to watch quality horror movies with a special someone; I can't watch that stuff on my own!

Music: I grew up listening to R&B and Hip Hop. I like looking up acoustic covers of R&B, Hip-Hop and Top 40s on YouTube. I have a soft heart for those who love old skool 90s R&B ;)

Food: I am willing to try most dishes. But I tend to gravitate to sushi and Asian cuisines. I also try to eat healthy by consuming organic food and fresh ingredients...but sometimes you just cant get everything organic or fresh!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Introspection, social justice, my collection of used books, satisfying conversations, believing in what I do, and quality friendships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I doing enough? Am I being the best person I can be? Do I do an awesome job with my work? How can I continue paying the expensive standard of living in San Francisco, while enjoying the simple pleasures in life? I wish I had more time to read my books!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depending on how much energy I have left at the end of the work week - either relaxing at home, reading a book, watching a movie, having dinner and catching up with a good friend, dancing the night away, analyzing and discussing some contemporary political or societal issue, or passing out on my bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get frustrated with those who have unchecked privilege (classism, sexism, and racism) and entitlement. I value people who have critical thinking skills, emotional self-awareness, humility, and assertiveness. Lastly, I appreciate those who empower and inspire marginalized and oppressed communities
You should message me if
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you've read most of my profile and found something interesting or special that resonated with you

You enjoy having deep conversations

You don't mind talking on the phone (it's really hard to find people who can do this, now these days...)

You're real and genuine, and okay with being vulnerable

You're a handsome pinoy man