I want to be with a man who values the qualities listed above; who also practices kindness and compassion; who makes a difference in the world; who acknowledges the potential for predicaments and challenges to arise in life, but is awake enough to cherish each moment and each opportunity to be present with one another - resisting nothing, protecting nothing, hiding nothing - in a loving, co-creative, committed partnership. A man who wants to know and love everything about me, and who wants me to know and love everything about him. He will have his own wisdom, gained in his own way, by living his own life. And he’ll have done much of his own work and healed whatever could be healed without me. We will be twice as rich in every way, and do the rest of our healing together. If he can lift the occasional heavy thing, and provide a little financial support, that would be great. We are as young as we will ever be in a rapidly changing world-So many choices of what to do with our time. What better than to choose and enjoy together, saying yes to each other as often as possible? (Including personal/alone time & time with our own friends.) Let’s love each other just the way we are, and grow together without trying to change each other!
I don’t respond to winks, flirts or profiles without photos. To get my attention, you actually have to say something. (I love a man with good spelling and sentence structure.) I don’t color my hair, wear makeup, smoke, drink, or do drugs. I am not a Christian by most Christians’ standards, but I am spiritually focused. Jesus thinks I’m ok, and I love him too. If you know who Matt Kahn, Nassim Haramein, John Hiatt, Paul Brady, Sonika & Christian, John O’Donohue, Werner Erhard, Esther Hicks, and/or Ernest Holmes are, so much the better. I am currently writing a book and recording a CD of my own songs. I also work, which I would quit in a heartbeat if the circumstances call for it.
Of course, we'll start with friendship, but just to be clear about the true desire of my heart - I will clear the decks for you if you are the one I’ve been waiting for. Here I stand. Who will meet me here? Who will stand next to me and say: “Yes! This is my woman! I will stand by her no matter what and I am proud to be her man!” That’s what I want. If you are that man, show up. Stand next to me. Bring it. I will settle for nothing less, AND I OFFER NOTHING LESS.
Thanks for your time! (A more lengthy version of the above is available by request, if you'd like more details.) Final note: I include older photos of myself not to try to trick anyone, but because we will not have the benefit of having known each other when we were younger, and I’d like to have the kind of relationship where we can still see each other as youthful and beautiful, no matter what physical changes accompany the years.