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63 F Grass Valley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:15pm
Native American, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I’m creative, kind, compassionate, introspective, balanced, grounded, and authentic. I’ve been quite an adventurer, but have learned to love the adventure of every-day life as much as any other, so I have neither attachment nor aversion to adventures at this point. I’m here to experience living fully. I never tried to be “different” but all along the good red road, I’ve tended to see things differently than many people I know. In fact, one of my gifts is being able to understand varying points of view simultaneously, without needing to know which is correct. How can a perspective be correct or incorrect, when it depends on your position? I love the big picture and the details: Climbing to the mountain top to see as far as I can see, imagining expanding out into the stars; or lying down in the dirt to explore the tiny activities there or the way the light plays at that level. I’ve been single for 15 years and I‘ve done my inner work. I am healed & whole, though by no means finished. I believe in, love, and thrive in partnership-the advanced level of life.

I don’t color my hair or wear makeup. My hair is long because I like it that way; I am not a “hippie.” I don’t smoke, drink, or do drugs. I’m shy, but I hide it well because I love people and think they’re worth getting to know. I don’t preach or try to convince, but my life is focused on the Spiritual, for I believe that all things have, are, and come from Spirit. (I am not a Christian by most Christians’ standards, but Jesus thinks I’m ok.) If you know who Nassim Haramein, John Hiatt, Paul Brady, Sonika & Christian, Werner Erhard, Esther Hicks, and/or Ernest Holmes are, you get serious bonus points. I am currently writing a book and recording a CD of my own songs. I also work, which I would quit in a heartbeat if the circumstances call for it. I will clear the decks for you if you are the one I’ve been waiting for.

Every business, organization, relationship or project I’ve ever been part of has become more prosperous, efficient, and fun while I was there. If you’d like a great partner, be in touch!

Who I'm looking for: I am looking for a man who will love everything about me and will appreciate the same in return. Understanding that the answers are not mutually exclusive and that it’s possible that we can have all that we desire in a mate, here’s a series of A and B choices that will reveal the kind of man I am looking for. Please finish this sentence with either A or B: It is more important to me that my woman
A) loves and respects herself and others or B) looks like a fashion model
A) has lived an interesting life or B) likes to watch sports
A) has integrity, kindness and depth of character or B) has her own money
A) is intelligent and thoughtful or B) agrees with me about everything
A) is still learning and growing and loving every minutes of it or B) has everything figured out
A) says yes to me because she wants to or B) uses sex to get what she wants
A) has earned her wisdom and joy in life by working through some difficult challenges or B) has not been damaged by tragedy or deep emotional trauma.

If you can answer A to all of the above, then you’re the kind of guy I’m looking for. Note: there’s nothing wrong with the B answers either-It’s the preference that matters.
What I’m doing with my life
Making the most of it. Living one day at a time, contributing as much as possible. Imagining life with my last great love and living sustainable in a world that works for everyone. Writing songs and a book. I still work part time and I love my job.
I’m really good at
Compassionate listening; caring and nurturing; generosity; singing & playing piano; communicating; writing songs & other thoughtful things; organization skills; managing projects, households, offices, businesses, etc.; seeing what’s missing; acknowledging others; organic gardening; wild-crafting herbs; nutrition and health; seeing the big picture; being able to see and accept diverse viewpoints; mediating; coaching; manifesting; taking responsibility for what happens in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
How would I know? People often comment about my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Barbara Kingsolver, Lee Smith, Anne Lamott, Martha Beck, Ernest Holmes, or Nelson DeMille. Joe vs the Volcano, The African Queen, The Matrix Triology, Last of the Mohicans. TV: MacGyver, Stargate SG1; McLeod's Daughters; suits; Boston Legal. Music: Joni Mitchell, Jackson Browne, Paul Simon, James Taylor, Jan Garrett & JD Martin, Leonard Cohen, and so many more. Healthy organic real food! Dirt, Nature!
The six things I could never do without
Love, Music, Nature, Gratitude, Creativity, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The Infinite Creativity of Spirit; Songs I'm writing; my dreams of having a partner and what that will be like; What needs to be done so that my life flows smoothly; a world of Peace & Plenty.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not playing or rehearsing music, I'll be at home writing or reading a book or cooking and watching a movie. Occasionally I go out with friends, but I find my own company and creative work to be pretty fulfilling and demanding.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You'll have to get to know me and ask in person.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 52–72
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you've read so far and you think we might enjoy getting to know one another and exploring the possibility of more. The previous answer (I'm looking for. . .) doesn't have the choice that best fits my desire which would be: a Long term relationship rather than long term dating. But - we'll never know where it could go if we don't start a conversation!