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63 Grass Valley, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–72
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:18am
Native American, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a wild, wise woman, young at heart, eternally youthful in spirit, and an old soul. I practice kindness & compassion as the essential elements of happiness that they are; Nurturing & adventure are part of my nature. Other values include: Communication; Integrity; Personal responsibility; Creativity; Partnership; Gratitude; Presence; Authenticity; Commitment; Vulnerability; Surrender; Trust; Courage; Spiritual Awareness; Being awake in the world with detachment; Playfulness; Passion; Wonder; Environmental consciousness; Positive outlook; Health Consciousness; An open mind; A higher purpose; good humor, nature. I can travel, go out, or stay home; sleep in or get up and work on a project; play and sing or listen to music; converse with passion or be quiet; read, watch, garden, and be delighted with most anything. I have 31 yrs of transformational seminars, workshops, therapy, coaching etc. on my resume; I’ve done lots of inner work and healed most of what I’ve come to heal, but I’m always listening and learning new ways. What I’ve not yet done is love a man with my heart fully open, withholding nothing, fearing nothing, surrendering with grace and trust. I offer myself fully for this experience with some trustworthy and capable man.

I want to be with a man who values the qualities listed above; who also practices kindness and compassion; who makes a difference in the world; who acknowledges the potential for predicaments and challenges to arise in life, but is awake enough to cherish each moment and each opportunity to be present with one another - resisting nothing, protecting nothing, hiding nothing - in a loving, co-creative, committed partnership. A man who wants to know and love everything about me, and who wants me to know and love everything about him. He will have his own wisdom, gained in his own way, by living his own life. And he’ll have done much of his own work and healed whatever could be healed without me. We will be twice as rich in every way, and do the rest of our healing together. If he can lift the occasional heavy thing, and provide a little financial support, that would be great. We are as young as we will ever be in a rapidly changing world-So many choices of what to do with our time. What better than to choose and enjoy together, saying yes to each other as often as possible? (Including personal/alone time & time with our own friends.) Let’s love each other just the way we are, and grow together without trying to change each other!

I don’t respond to winks, flirts or profiles without photos. To get my attention, you actually have to say something. (I love a man with good spelling and sentence structure.) I don’t color my hair, wear makeup, smoke, drink, or do drugs. I am not a Christian by most Christians’ standards, but I am spiritually focused. Jesus thinks I’m ok, and I love him too. If you know who Matt Kahn, Nassim Haramein, John Hiatt, Paul Brady, Sonika & Christian, John O’Donohue, Werner Erhard, Esther Hicks, and/or Ernest Holmes are, so much the better. I am currently writing a book and recording a CD of my own songs. I also work, which I would quit in a heartbeat if the circumstances call for it.

Of course, we'll start with friendship, but just to be clear about the true desire of my heart - I will clear the decks for you if you are the one I’ve been waiting for. Here I stand. Who will meet me here? Who will stand next to me and say: “Yes! This is my woman! I will stand by her no matter what and I am proud to be her man!” That’s what I want. If you are that man, show up. Stand next to me. Bring it. I will settle for nothing less, AND I OFFER NOTHING LESS.

Thanks for your time! (A more lengthy version of the above is available by request, if you'd like more details.) Final note: I include older photos of myself not to try to trick anyone, but because we will not have the benefit of having known each other when we were younger, and I’d like to have the kind of relationship where we can still see each other as youthful and beautiful, no matter what physical changes accompany the years.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finding it interesting. Enjoying and making the most of it. Living one day at a time, loving and contributing as much as possible. Imagining life with my last great love and living sustainably in a world that works for everyone. Writing songs and a book.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Compassionate listening; caring and nurturing; generosity; singing & playing piano; communicating; writing songs & other thoughtful things; organization skills; managing projects, households, offices, businesses, etc.; seeing what’s missing; acknowledging others; organic gardening; wild-crafting herbs; nutrition and health; seeing the big picture; being able to see and accept diverse viewpoints; mediating; coaching; manifesting; taking responsibility for what happens in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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How would I know? People often comment about my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Barbara Kingsolver, Lee Smith, Anne Lamott, Martha Beck, Ernest Holmes, Joel Goldsmith, Dan Brown or Nelson DeMille. Joe vs the Volcano, Groundhog Day, The African Queen, The Matrix Triology, Last of the Mohicans, Avatar. TV: MacGyver, Stargate SG1; McLeod's Daughters; Suits; Boston Legal. Music: Joni Mitchell, Jackson Browne, Paul Simon, James Taylor, Jan Garrett & JD Martin, Leonard Cohen, and so many more. Healthy organic real food! Dirt, Nature!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Music, Nature, Gratitude, Creativity, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Infinite Creativity of Spirit; Songs I'm writing; my dreams of having a partner and what that will be like; What needs to be done so that my life flows smoothly; a world of Peace & Plenty; How I can better express the love that I am in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not playing or rehearsing music, I'll be at home writing or reading a book or cooking and watching a movie. Occasionally I go out with friends, but I find my own company and creative work to be pretty fulfilling and demanding.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll have to get to know me and ask in person.
You should message me if
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. . . what I've written doesn't scare you away. You like what you've read and you think we might enjoy getting to know one another and exploring the possibility of more. I am looking for a Long term relationship - But - we'll never know where it could go if we don't start with a conversation and a friendship! Ready?