Please understand. I am willing to date. I'll even date pseudo long distance, just not actual long, long distance. I just have come to the realization that dating sites like this work for people who have choices. In my area there is very little. So? Upshot of all that? I'll still check here some, but I am not...NOT here for talking sex to you, or fulfilling either your cougar mama dreams nor your "big woman" ones.
Happy hunting Cupidians!
There is no such thing as elove, and it's NEVER real, until you meet.
However infatuation absolutely exists. Real and virtual
I live in Northern California, and I don't mean Sacramento. I mean places with elevations over 3000 feet. I'm talking snow and deer and lakes and rivers. If you live for the hustle and bustle of the city, you probably won't like my lifestyle.
•I am NOT just as comfortable in a dress and heels as I am in my trusty old Levi's and sneakers. You bet I wear em, but they sure as hell aren't as comfortable.
•I am not laid back, easy going or drama free. I'm a mom, I run a business and I have tons of friends in my life. To do that and remain all that seems impossible to me. I do however manage to not freak out daily.
•I do not list chap stick, my smart phone or sex in my six things I couldn't do without. I list some other stuff, that I could do without, but I prefer not to. And ya know it could be that those first three things are pretty damned important. Well except a smart phone. I live without one of those just fine.
•Sushi is not my favorite food. Yet I have found something quite palatable when I go for it with friends. I really will try most things... once.
•I really do not like to bowl. Really. But if a group is going, I don't care, just buy me a beer or let me play pinball.
•However I don't actually drink much. Of course I don't drink little either. Okay, I drink little. I'll confess.
•I don't want to be your sidekick, your partner in crime or any of those other trite things. I want someone to share my life.
I like walking, reading, cooking, just hanging out. I love concerts, museums, checking out new places and people. I like driving fast and riding motorcycles, but I am not a biker. I love hanging out with my kids and learning from them.
"I'm a happy gal with a happy life and happy job. Happy happy happy. Woohoo! Life would be happier with a happy man, taking a long walk on a beach, at midnight, under a full moon, with thousands of stars visible. Doesn't that sound happy?"
Stolen from my friend halfoffsale. Cause he's da man, and if you live in or around Chicago, you should hit his sweet ass up!