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31 Saint Louis, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:25pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly other
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm something of a contradiction.
The athletic geek. The charismatic introvert. The adventurous intellectual.

I am a writer, a dancer, an entrepreneur
I am moved by music, mountains, mist in the morning
I loathe short sightedness, pettiness, extremism, complacency.
I want to explore the world, physically, intellectually, spiritually.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a start-up addict. I want to help make STL a new hub for innovation.

Eventually, I see myself working with non-profits and NGO's to address big issues around environmental sustainability and social justice at the local level. Right now though, I'm a software development manager.

I'm pretty driven and always looking for a challenge, whether at the gym, playing games, or giving myself a crash course in some new tech or philosophical subject.

I have a habit of stealing peoples passions: my house is full of musical instruments, rock climbing gear, tap shoes, eclectic board games. This has made me something of a renaissance man, and I'm always on the prowl for new and interesting people to learn from.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing. I teach blues and swing classes.
Writing. "To write well is to think clearly. That's why it's so hard."
Games. Bring it. From Starcraft to Scrabble to Baduk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good looking, quiet but smart.

I probably saw them first. I'm usually at the edge of the room, having an intellectual conversation with a few people, and noticing everything.

I can be a bit intense at times, but I promise I'm not as mean as I look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Good taste is essential for me. It says a lot about who you are. If you share some interests or know something new I would like, maybe we can be friends.

Current Top Picks:
Nabokov's Pale Fire
Cloud Atlas
Jeff Buckley's Hallelujah

A selection of other things that make life worth living:

Rachmaninoff piano concertos, Bach cello suites, Taiko drums
Modest Mouse, Gorillaz, RJD2, Parov Stellar, Queens of the Stone Age, Ella Fitzgerald, Nina Simone, Garbage, Massive Attack, Sneaker Pimps, White Stripes, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Jimmy Hendrix, Eric Clapton, Hugh Laurie, Keb'Mo

Whitman - Leaves of Grass, Kurt Vonnegut, George RR Martin, JRR Tolkien, Douglas Adams, Richard Feynman, Neil Gaiman, Neil Stephenson, Ursula K LeGuinn, Rushdie - Midnight's Children

Inglorious Basterds, The Prestige, Momento, The Usual Suspects, The Fountain, Amelie, Moulin Rouge, Pan's Labrynth, Les Miserables, Hero, Firefly, Game of Thrones, In Bruges, Snatch

Miyazaki (Gibli) films, Millenium Actress, Cowboy Bebop, Samurai Champloo, Ghost in the Shell, Avatar (Airbender and Korra)

Portal 1/2, Starcraft 1/2, LoL, Braid, Journey, Civilization
Minecraft, FF VI and VII, Borderlands

Bulgogi, Fajitas, Avocados, Thai Curry
Lemonade on a warm but breezy morning in June.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we are here, and where we are going.

Big problems and how I can do my part.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing, cooking with friends, or playing games
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm far less confident than I seem, and far more capable than I think.
You should message me if
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You are smart, driven, and fascinating.

If you want to learn to swing dance or need some new gaming buddies.