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Grahaminator

51 M Alpharetta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:48am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Khmer (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
First off, don't let the age fool you. I don't look anything like my age nor do I act it. I've had people freak out when they learned how old I was!

And although I've never been married, I was engaged once and was also in an eight year relationship that ended August 2012. I'm definitely NOT afraid of commitment.

I like to cook for people, I have a terrific sense of humor, I'm thoughtful and LOVE animals.

I play guitar, I build custom guitars for a hobby, I'm handy around the house - I've usually got some project going on - this past week was fixing the condensation pipe from the A/C. I build computers as a hobby, I enjoy hiking and biking. LOVE The Big Creek Greenway for biking and I try to hike Stone Mountain at least once a week. (Funny story, I took my two neighbors walking on The Greenway. Collectively they're younger than me and I walked circles around them!)

As far as being honest, well what do women REALLY mean when they say they want someone who is honest? Do they mean they want a guy who will HONESTLY answer their questions? "Why yes, Honey, that dress DOES make your butt look big!" Or "Yes, I actually do think your sister is prettier than you." Honesty can sometimes be hurtful, so I try not to use it as a weapon. I put myself in that position and I don't want a woman who will honestly tell me she's going to a male strip club. What I want is a woman who's not going in the first place. Not that I'm a prude and if it was a "once in a while" thing like a bachelorette party, then by all means, go.

It's just that when I think of "honesty" I'm thinking of a person who does the right thing to begin with so they don't have to "be honest" later.

I'm at a point in my life where I'm comfortable - I don't have any debt - I own my home, the car is paid for and I'm stable in my job. I have my baggage down to a carry on. That said, I would enjoy the company of someone I'm attracted to who's attracted to me.

As far as what I'm looking for, I've listed some traits below, in no particular order;

* I'm looking for my best friend. I want someone I can share life's ups & downs with. Someone I care about who cares about me.

* Sense of humor. This means laugh at yourself, me and anything else that's funny. Really, don't be a "stick in the mud." Life's too short. Enjoy it!

* Age isn't important. However, most 20-somethings are still "sowing their wild oats", which I understand. So I'd prefer someone at least in their 30's. Although, I have met some mature 21 year olds and some very immature 41 year olds - go figure.

* Physically, I'm attracted to the shape of a woman. Real women have curves. That said, those curves should be tight and fit. I take care of myself so why shouldn't you?

* Children - I love kids. And if you have them, great. :-) Your children should come first and I TOTALLY understand that. But if you're always breaking dates to take care of your kids, perhaps you should reconsider your decision to join a dating site.

* Be willing to meet. E-mails and texts are nice, but I want to meet you in person. If after two or three messages, you're not ready to meet, then again, reconsider your decision to join a dating site.
What I’m doing with my life
I'll save that for when we meet. :)
I’m really good at
a lot of stuff! Playing guitar, fixing things around the house, baking, drawing, "nun chuck skills, bow hunting skills..." Ha ha! Again, we can talk when we go out.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people notice about me... is that I remind them of somebody they know. Seriously this happens to me about once a month! I guess I just have one of those faces. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book(s) = Life of Pi, Proof of Heaven, The DaVinci Code, Welcome to the Monkey House, The Forever War, Candide, 1984, The Hunger Games Trilogy, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, State of Fear, The Hobbit, the list goes on.

Favorite shows = Bob's Burgers, Breaking Bad, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Grimm, Dexter, The Big Bang Theory, The Walking Dead, Jeopardy, Twin Peaks, The Andy Griffith Show, Married With Children, Seinfeld.

Favorite music = 80's hair bands (Aeorsmith, Queen, Journey, AC/DC, Boston, Dokken, Ozzy), some new stuff (Gold Fish, Maroon 5, FloRida, J. Paul Jr. and the Zydeco Nubreeds), some R&B (Billie Holliday), some funk (Parliment, Midnight Star), some rap, (Tupac), some Cajun/Zydeco, really just about anything but country, although I do like Patsy Cline.

Favorite food(s) = Italian, Mexican, Vietnamese, Indian, cheesecake, really just about anything but sushi and Ethiopian and yes, I've tried them both several times.

Favorite movie(s) = Pulp Fiction, American Beauty, My Life as a Dog, The Artist, The Terminator, Run Lola Run, A Clockwork Orange, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Zombieland, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, Shaun of the Dead, Big, The Usual Suspects - Too many to list!
The six things I could never do without
1. My dog
2. A guitar
3. Lip Balm
4. Sleep
5. Love
6. Dental Floss
6A. Bacon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why they can't seem to synchronize the traffic lights in Atlanta...
On a typical Friday night I am
Contra dancing! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contra_dancing

Really not as dorky as it sounds. :-)
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're serious about going out! I don't mean I want a commitment right away, just be available to meet for coffee, dinner or a walk on the Greenway or hike up Stone Mountain. We'll take it from there. :) The longest journey begins with the first small step...

Also, if you love animals, like all kinds of music, especially 80's rock, enjoy a good laugh, like good movies, want someone who will treat you with respect, enjoy good food and just want to have fun!