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30 F Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Sure, I'd love to awkwardly talk about myself to a bunch of internet strangers. Wait, do we still capitalize 'internet'?

I'm a very passionate, affectionate, ambitious, driven person. More than one elderly person has referred to me as a 'spitfire'. I love the sunshine and spending time outdoors in the spring and summer, but during the colder months, you'll find me indoors...pretending to study, but really watching People's Court. Don't tell anyone.

I have a sense of humour that's apparently 'a little too dry', which gets me into trouble…well, often. Sometimes. Let's go with sometimes. I'm attracted to those who are confident, passionate, intelligent, and up for anything. I'm not attracted to those who are pretentious.

If you're into the MBTI, I'm textbook ENTP.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a great (albeit busy) place in my life - I have a career I love, family close by, and really awesome friends. I love to travel but haven't been able to lately due to work and school commitments, but I graduate in less than 2 months (not that I'm counting) and hope to start a whole new adventure!

I love trying new things and there's little I'll say 'no' to. Save for robbing banks and other significant criminal activities.
I’m really good at
I can fold fitted sheets! I'm told this is a unique talent. I'm really good at problem solving. I can plank for a really long time. I'm good at taking care of myself: emotionally, physically, and mentally.

I'm really good at being snuggled.

I'm also really good at telling people things I'm terrible at. For example, I can tell you that I can't remember anything of importance and I definitely don't understand how the internet works.
The first things people usually notice about me
How clean the trunk of my car is. Kidding! It's a mess. (Nobody gets this joke).

Upon first meeting, probably my level of professionalism. Then maybe my openness and ability to get excited about a lot of different things.

Or maybe just my legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Anything by Dan Savage; Tipping the Velvet; The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake. I prefer fiction. Right now all I read are textbooks and journal articles, though.
Movies - I don't like super violent movies, but other than that, my interests are pretty varied. I'm not remotely a movie snob. I looove musicals.
Music - Again, I have pretty varied tastes. I love r&b, Motown, pop. John Legend, Woodkid, Rufus Wainwright, Daft Punk, Stevie Wonder, Etta James.
Food - My favourite! I love Japanese, Thai, Chinese, Indian, a good sandwich...I love trying new food, and good cooking is a total turn on.
The six things I could never do without
1. A comfy bed (
2. My loved ones
3. The feeling of being challenged
4. The Oxford comma (
5. Delicious food
6. Hope (my favourite poem:
7. Kissing/cuddles. I can't pick!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Now that you're here, I have a question. Typically when I'm on OkC, I'm thinking about the etiquette of messaging people back. I believe in telling someone if I'm not interested, but recently someone called me 'grandiose' for messaging them back and saying I wasn't interested. Thoughts?

How I wish I weren't such a procrastinator
My relationships.
My future/goals
Whether or not I should rearrange my furniture….ooo, that's a great idea!
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in class, studying, spending time with my friends, etc. My favourite Friday probably involves getting together with my friends over a pint or glass of wine. Basically, whatever I want. Adulthood is awesome that way.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't smoke.
You know the difference between your & you're, and too, to, & two.
You're open to unconventional relationships
You think Robert California is a decent mentor.