Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Okay so, here's where I'm at. I work a ridiculous amount. Luckily I
love what I do so that's not a problem, but it makes it hard on
relationships. I refuse to make someone second to my career.
However I'm also a romantic, and love having a main squeeze to go
be adventurous with, to do fun things for and think about until I
see them again. So here is what I'm looking for:
I'm hoping to find a lady who is driven and busy herself, but wants
to find someone to go have fun with when she's free. Go out, stay
in, be intimate, all the above. However definitely more than just
some booty call. The friendship comes first. I'm the kinda guy who
will buy you flowers on a bad day, cook you a little gourmet dinner
if we don't want to go out, go on walks at night. Whether we don't
see each other for a couple weeks, or are randomly free 3 nights in
a row, it's all good. Just keeping it easy, open, honest and fun.
This sound good to anyone?
Little about me:
Born in England. Grew up in SF. Started career in NY. After a three
year stint in SoCal for graduate school I'm back in New York again
and stoked about it. I'm passionate about life and people, and get
along with just about everyone I meet. I also have a dog named
Stella who has more friends than I do and has no idea she is a
What I’m doing with my life
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A photographer (mostly architecture but I also shoot models and
weddings) and a bike messenger in NYC to bring home the
I'm a college professor at an institute in NYC, poet, performer,
comedian, ballroom dancer and a professional underwater basket
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finishing the bottle of wine I'm cooking with before I've finished
cooking the actual dinner.
Things that I don't suck at:
Cuddling (I'm like a teddy bear mixed with an octopus)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Breaking bad and Planet Earth. But the David Attenborough one,
cause he's awesome and I want to him narrate my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell is going on inside my dogs head
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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for the last 10 years I've kept a leather bound journal from my
first trip to Europe alone. Ever since, I write in it only during
pivotal moments of change or times of great existential reflection,
and one day when I'm old and grey I plan to pour a humongous glass
of scotch with a single cube, sit down in my comfy chair (cause all
old people have their comfy chair) and read the whole thing.
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