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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Jan 27
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hallo! I am Joss, an adorable Australian currently (although not much longer) stationed in Berlin!

I don't think I could possibly write a self-summary that did me justice and yet was short enough to read. I might end up writing a whole damn essay! So here's a short list of Features instead:

- I hate elitism or hypocrisy
- I'm extremely feminist. I don't often get angry but when I do it's probably to do with that
- I'm nonbinary; they-pronouns, please, not he-pronouns
- I'm pansexual, not bisexual as my profile states. The difference is hard to explain and it'd be better for all concerned if you just google it
- I'm also polyamourous. I'm not looking for exclusivity and I don't expect it of anyone (sexual safety come first, of course)
- I'm really really nerdy and get very obsessed with things and one of my favourite things to do is obsess passionately over the things with like-minded people!
- My second-favourite thing to is share comfortable silences with others, I can be very quiet sometimes! Especially if I don't have anything to say!
- I am pathalogically shy.

A typical conversation with me will involve me getting really excited over something geeky and then getting briefly angry about the patriarchy and then probably getting distracted by a passing dog.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking a break from uni work to try my hand at this whole Adulthood thing and looking fantastic while I do it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing my nails
Being cute
Empathising with fictional characters more than with humans
Getting really uncontrollably excited
Destroying the patriarchy
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My brightly painted nails. And my clothes.

My sincerity and eagerness. Am I allowed to say that about myself? It feels like boasting about how humble one is just sounds pretentious. Well, there you go!

Apparently my face really lights up when I get super excited about things? Which is actually really often. I'm excitable. Oops.

Yeah I dunno, ask people what they notice about me, not me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many things. Oh god.

BOOKS (This will contain both authors, series and individual books, shhh):
Terry Pratchett, J.K. Rowling, Robin Hobb, To Kill A Mockingbird, George R.R. Martin, Neil Gaiman, Patrick Rothfuss, Animorphs, The Book Thief, The Perks of Being A Wallflower

I mostly like silly romcoms and chick flicks like Love Actually and Mean Girls, as well as any and all queer films (Priscilla! Imagine Me And You! But I'm A Cheerleader!)
But I also like REALLY AWESOME ACTION FILMS like Pacific Rim or every Marvel film
But I also love Disney and similar movies
And Studio Ghibli, especially Princess Mononoke. Kiki's Delivery Service makes me homesick.

Star Trek, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Community, Buffy, Firefly, Daria, Cabin Pressure, Avatar, Avengers: Earth's Mightiest Heroes (and all the other Marvel animated series idk), Gargoyles, Arrested Development, Teen Titans, lots of things

I love musicals: Lion King, Joseph, Wicked, Les Mis, all of it
Do Disney songs count here? Yeah ok they can go here
Also video game soundtracks?? They're really atmospheric.
For actual bands I love Imagine Dragons, Queen, Regina Spektor, The Cat Empire, The Killers, Mumford & Sons, Wir Sind Helden, Boy

Pokemon, Zelda, D&D, Civilization, Diablo, Animal Crossing. I don't have much time for anything except Pokemon and Animal Crossing at the moment though. I have a special place in my heart for the Ace Attorney and Mother series though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much better OKCupid would be if they had more than straight/gay/bi male/female options.

How best to tell someone that you think they're really cute and you are in love with their clothing choices and oh wow that makeup is so great well done!! without bothering them or coming across as wanting to get into their pants

Anthony Head's voice, Hannah Hart's hair, Idris Elba's eyebrows, Tatiana Maslany's everything
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to an international meetup to try to make EVEN MORE FRIENDS or staying home and resetting my mental batteries
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am really cute in a dress and the world is poorer for me not wearing them every day WAS the most private thing about six months ago but now I'm pretty open about it I mean just look at my profile picture here

So um the most private thing now? I dunno I am a pretty open person. Ummm. I prefer cuddling + kisses to sex?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not a cis guy! Sorry fellas but I'm not interested. If you don't know what a cis guy is, you probably are one. I've had to change my "looking for" on here because of the amount of messages I've received from creepy and/or illiterate dudes

You are A) queer and/or B) nerdy and want to:
- explore Berlin with me!
- get a drink (coffee, tea, beer, I don't care)
- go to one of Berlin's parks!
- play Quidditch!
- see a movie!
- cuddle!
- go shopping!
- talk excitedly about Things while doing any of the above!
- Talk first! I am pathalogically shy and almost never message first, but I am likely to respond!