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GravidMind

33 M Boston, MA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–81
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:55pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Living as a scholar vagabond for the year traveling semi-arbitrarily around the world (wherever I know people or decide to, mostly).

Spend half my time studying for fun and trying to suss out secrets of the universe. I put the rest into various sports (mostly grappling, bit of boxing and rock climbing), connecting with friends and the world, and plotting. ... Plotting good. (I hope!)
In doing all of this I'm often in a religious-like awe or constructive frustration -- wouldn't have it any other way. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Staking out my corner of the universe and boldy telling chaos that it can't have it. At least not for now. (to paraphrase Dorothy Gambrell of Cat and Girl)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
bragging.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
make for better conversations than lists. But if you're the kind of person that sits in the dark just to listen to music, reads books that make you think, and likes to be surrounded by things that challenge (at least, say, 1/2 the time) I'd probably enjoy that conversation.

But here're three pair+ that are up there:
Vehicles: Experiments in Synthetic Psychology, The Things They Carried, Poemotion 1 & 2 |||
Harold and Maud & Antonia's Line |||
Ryoji Ikeda & Cut Chemist & Elizabeth Cotten |||
[Note: on the app this will appear as a block of text rather than a series of links - apologies.]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Beauty, the mind, what can be known, how it can be known, athletic puzzles, the relationship between epistemology and ethics, the importance of madness ("Sanity is madness put to good use.", ~G. Santayana), what seems to be the rarity of heartrending caring (about life/causes/ideas, not individuals ;), the often not petty logistical details of life, when it is dangerous to create things that may be misused and when it is dangerous to do nothing at all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that you're awesome. Yes, you.
...aaaaand, apparently a little vain.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've a mind like a diamond and a bleeding heart.

You're somewhere that you're pretty sure I should be.

You're not overly intimidated by the fact that I'm quite intimate with some amazing people who share my distaste for artificial scarcity. ;)

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ps: I sometimes don't do well at responding to mail. If so: know nothing personal is meant, you're still loved. Think of the silence as like... a zen hug. =)