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GrayCat21

64 San Antonio, TX Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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"Now I am just a poor boy, baby,
trying to connect...
but I don't want you thinking,
Oh, that I ain't got any respect."
(If You Gotta Go, Go Now)
Manfred Mann (1965)
Composed by Bob Dylan (1964)

I quess we are all here looking for someone to be in our lives.
A Friend of mine asked the other day: "Why be in a relationship?" I figure this: The ability to give and receive affection makes me a whole person. It adds to the other parts of me.

Some people say I'm a good man, open, honest, caring. Retired Yankee hippie in Texas. Yikes! I enjoy laughter and often start by laughing at myself. I am emotionally stable, healthy and financially secure. I own my own home. I enjoy my life and the peace of it. Looking past the surface of people and ideas is how I like to live. Activley working on projects is satisfying but sometimes I need have a few cups of coffee before I begin to procrastinate. ... As with this summary.
I like but am not limited to: NPR in the morning and PBS in the evening. Politically I am well Left of Center.
Fall is my favorate time of year; I like the light at dusk, the smells and the way the air feels on my face.
My last working gig was teaching High School History. I have worked in nursing, on and off, a long time. Have done many other kinds of labor including community organizing, and working on a ranch. I spent years doing anti-war work as a member of VietNam Veterans Against the War. That was then.
Have been in every State except Alaska. Traveled in Europe, Central America, Canada, South East Asia. (all after military time).
In some ways I suppose I am "Old School".
At the end of the day: "I yam what I yam".
More later!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Often working on my vintage (1926)home. (I collect and use antique woodworking tools) I am involved with my neighborhood assoc., community support groups, and family and friends. I still have more then a few good friends which makes me feel fortunate. Lucky for you I have Encarta Dictionary.
again, more later.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching the crap out of things.
I've been told "Everything you do; you do well" ...I wish!
Dancing to Blues.
Listening very closely.
Fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Who knows? I am a male?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many. I like to read in bed. Some recent reads:
Just read and watched "A Guide to Recognizing Your Saints" liked both and felt nostalgic for NY
"The Cotton-Pickers" by B.Traven, very good.
Currently re-reading "Going Away" by Clancy Sigal. I first read it in 1976, and it seems time to read it again. Pretty good in parts. Great in others. First printed in 1962.
Favorite movie? "Oh Lucky Man" comes to mind.
Food? I am an omnivore. But there are times I wish I could take friends to NYC on some kind of magic bus and say "Eat This!".
Right now music: "Tangled Up In Blue" by Bob Dylan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious, I could not do without being able to participate in life around me.
An old friend came by to see me and she said "You sure have a lot of stuff... but it is good stuff.". ( good not as in new but as in old and cool stuff, antiques) O.K., I like and enjoy my stuff but I have learned I could live without any or all of it if need be.
More to come...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"What do I need to do today?" Then I try to do it.
...searching for my Muse.
I have seen a lot of "No Drama" statements. Were that true, then many of the poems, plays, books, songs, movies over hundreds of years would not have been written. I don't care for drama a lot but I think it is how we handle it that matters.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...doing whatever I want. Sometimes with friends; sometimes alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was raised Catholic. I have a copy of the painting "Sacred Heart of Mary" that was on my Grandmother's kitchen wall, on my kitchen wall. In the painting, Mary is holding her robe open to show her heart and has a wonderful direct gaze "come hither" look.
....Now I'm really going to hell.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you want to! And really want to meet a real life person. I like my real life just fine, I do not need, or am interested in, a cyber-life. Walking and talking with a person beats surfing the internet for me, as far as personal relationships go... If you are a dating site junkie, sorry. and... fair is fair, please have a photo on your profile.