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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Gay, Bisexual, Homoflexible, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s) and might want more
My self-summary
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I would consider myself pretty laid back, I enjoy going out or staying in. I get more excited over brunch in the morning than staying out until 4am. I prefer to be low key, blend in, not make a scene. I'm a non-scene guy. I love culture, photography, theater, music, good food, beer, wine, exploring new places, walks around parks and the streets, biking, and going on adventures to name only just a few.

In the winter skiing and snowboarding are my passion! I absolutely love the outdoors, being active, and enjoying nature. After living in Vermont 9 years you have a great appreciation for the clean outdoors.

I'm looking for something real, monogamous ( not monotonous), and fulfilling. I'm a father to two amazing young children and my end goal is to find my other half who wants a family.

I'm a busy Entrepreneur, but it's time I start making more time for meeting people.

I've been lucky to have lived in many locations all over the U.S, though I must say I'm definitely an east coast/ New England guy at heart. I'm new to the mid-west and so far I'm not in love, but I don't despise it. The biggest challenge has been the people.

If I had to list my 3 favorite east coast cities it'd have to be DC, NYC, and Boston. I have to admit I like to get to NYC often as its a great city with so much to offer, I miss living in the area, but not as much as Vermont. Other favorite cities are Dallas, Seattle, San Fran, and the SE of the US. Chicagoland looks to be home for a good while.

I don't have a hell of a lot of patience for stupidly and lack of common sense, it's just a deeply rooted irritation. If you're a bimbo, I'm highly allergic!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard to play harder, exploring the great city, advancing my career to the next level. Searching for my future partner in crime along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wedding Playlists

Making you and others laugh naturally, it's just wired in me.

Finding exciting things to do.

Balancing life and all it has to throw at you. Staying positive and keeping the positive energy flowing.

Knowing random facts and knowledge about a ton of things or topics!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep blue eyes, sincere smile, great sense of humor, and my positive attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love watching shows which allow you to take something away from it. Mindless shows are nice as well to unwind. Movies range from action packed, to sappy drama, though I always love a good laugh. Music is mood dependent, anything goes except country; I find it depressing. Food, keep it fresh, keep it local when you can, eat well, so you can live well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
Red wine
Intellectual stimulation
My Trainer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmmmm maybe how my future half will find me....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmmm... laying low, unwinding, enjoying a nice bottle of wine. Sometimes I'm with a group of friends doing this in a low key setting. It's all about letting go of the week to enjoy the weekend ahead! I'm fairly versatile and enjoy many different renditions of a "Friday night".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think everyone has a little kinky side to them.
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, driven, goal oriented, family oriented, and an all around good person.

You're not a flaming queen with flames shooting out your ass while bullshit pours from the other end.

You're tired of all the nonsense on the other apps and actually seek something real.

You want to.

You made it this far.