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30 Naperville, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I would consider myself pretty laid back, I enjoy going out or staying in. I get more excited over brunch in the morning than staying out until 4am. I prefer to be low key, blend in, not make a scene. I guess I'm a non-scene guy. I love art]], ]]photography, theater, music, good food, beer, wine, exploring new places in this great city, walks around parks and the streets, biking, and going on adventures. Do you love to laugh, can you find something funny about most situations, I can, and I like to keep a light heart. I'm serious enough most of the week, it's nice let loose on occasion.

In the winter skiing and snowboarding are my passion! I absolutely love the outdoors, being active, and enjoying nature. After living in Vermont the last 9 years you have a great appreciation for the clean outdoors.

I'm looking for something real, monogamous ( not monotonous), and fulfilling. I'm a father to two amazing young children and my end goal is to find my other half who wants a family.

There's much more to me than whats written, so get in touch!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard to play harder, exploring the great city, advancing my career to the next level. Searching for my future partner in crime along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you and others laugh naturally, it's just wired in my personality!

Finding great places to enjoy a drink or bite.

Balancing life and all it has to throw at you. Staying positive and keeping the positive energy flowing.

Knowing random facts and knowledge about a ton of things!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep blue eyes, sincere smile, great sense of humor, and my positive attitude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love watching shows which allow you to take something away from it. Mindless shows are nice as well to unwind. Movies range from action packed, to sappy drama, though I always love a good laugh. Music is mood dependent, anything goes except country; I find it depressing. Food, keep it fresh, keep it local when you can, eat well, so you can live well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
Technology (iPhone/iPad)
Fine espresso
Fine wines and spirits
Good conversation
Intellectual stimulation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I enjoy thinking about the future and my plans on how to get where I envision myself.

Without goals and motivation in life, your dead. I'm not interested in being the guy that just goes through life, getting by, going nowhere.

How I'll respond when my knight in shining armor appears, I prefer the armor to not shine and just blend in. Unless....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmmm... laying low, unwinding, enjoying a nice bottle of wine. Sometimes I'm with a group of friends doing this in a low key setting. It's all about letting go of the week to enjoy the weekend ahead! I'm fairly versatile and enjoy many different renditions of a "Friday night".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think everyone has a little kinky side to them.
You should message me if
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If you are actually interested in both me and getting a response.

You say what you mean, and mean what you say.

You actually have hopes of finding a great guy.

You've made it this far.