It has taken me more than two months of painstaking coffees and glasses of wine to determine, from a rather small sampling I admit, that women do NOT want a nice guy. You know, that guy that your mom and grandma wished for you. That sweet, sensitive, caring guy who would do anything for you, just to make you happy. That fun, loving, Mr. Personality who everyone likes. That guy in great shape, athletic, who loves the theater, movies and museums…and kids and dogs. Clearly, it is a new day and that guy is no longer wanted. You say you want him….but you don’t. If you did, there would have been a long list of emails for me from you…..but there isn’t.
The “nice” guy must go. So, here I stand before you, the retired “Nice Guy”, now the new “Badass”. I am confidant (have always been), mysterious, fun (have always been this too), very cool, a decision maker, unafraid to make a call or say hello.. I will no longer call you when I said I would or answer your texts immediately. I will play coy even though I want to be with you. This is what all the books say you really want…why, I have no idea!
However, if all of this fails, I am still looking for an amazing woman to be with, play with, talk with (am a great communicator), adventure with and romance with…..yes, ladies, Mr. Badass still wants to hug you and share long passionate kisses while watching a romantic sunset…oh no, there’s the nice guy coming out….
If you think you can handle this guy….let’s see.