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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Born in the Puget Sound region, I satisfy several clichés of native Northwesterners. Natural places thrill me, rain is soothing, books are a joy whatever the weather and my personality tends toward introversion.

Is the last trait a PNW stereotype? A cousin of the Seattle Freeze?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a library technician for a large public university. Learning about whatever in the world excites me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over-analyzing prompts for self promotion; and cooking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Annie Dillard has been my favorite writer over the past year. I found in her writing both an astonishing faculty for observation and an acute grasp of life's paradoxes.

Outside Lies Magic: Regaining History and Awareness in Everyday Places

The Handmaid's Tale

I go to Harpers, The New Yorker, The New York Times and NPR for news. I'm also a frequent listener of This American Life and a recent Mystery Show follower. If this page had a "heroes" section, I might list Starlee Kine.

My job has taught me most of the words to "Blank Space."
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The One bus away app
Banter, joking and sincerity
Approaching popular culture with irony
A kitchen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Phrases like, "the living memory of the land" or "the unplumbed intimacy that is life's chiefest pleasure."

The word 'salubrious.'

What it would be like to assume the sensorium of a different animal species (I'd like to experience the whiskers of a cat or the visual acuity of a bird).

How to notice more things in everyday life (usually after I've overlooked something).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually, Friday is when I indulge in some me time. I'll often go for a walk, watch a movie or lose myself in a book. Saturdays find me more sociable.
You should message me if
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I'm attracted to women who are broadly curious, thoughtful and silly; if you describe yourself by these or synonymous keywords, you are heartily encouraged to write me about any topic or respond to one of the following questions:

1. Would you rather live in Tampa Bay or Las Vegas?

2. Are there any places high on your travel list, because you fear climate change will threaten their existence?

3. What do you consider to be the dividing line between self-consciousness and self-awareness? Is self-consciousness necessarily negative?

4. In which situation is it most exciting to arrive with no time to spare: a movie; a wedding; a flight departure?

5. Are these questions interesting, annoying, nurturing, salubrious, methodical, aggrandizing, minatory, wistful or conciliatory?

6. If you were limited to eating the same meal for breakfast, lunch and dinner, what would be the most palatable choice? What would be the least?