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  • Ages 20–35
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My details

Last online
Today – 10:55am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm basically a Feminist tree nymph with a sassy mouth. If I could live naked, in the forest surrounded by beautiful plants and various mythical creatures, I would be pretty psyched.

Poly, pansexual/queer identifying Ladybird. I am currently in a long term partnership, but am open to pursuing other (platonic or not) relationships!

I don't like being in one place or doing one task for too long, my sun and moon are both in Gemini (if you're into astrology) I generally sprint around doing bits of this and that. My life is scattered fragments of one giant unfinished project.

If I can keep track of who I am and what we're doing, we're golden.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an English major at SMCC, ideally transferring to a 4 year joint, with the eventual goal of teaching. In my free time, I make art, go on little adventures around the city, read, watch true crime shows and serenade my cat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, quoting Kanye West lyrics (only in Kanye jest, of course..) Giving complements, nerding out about coffee/and/or literature, being affectionate, causing a scene in public, charades.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One of my oldest and dearest friends described me as:

"Someone who seems quiet at first until you get to know her, and then you'll forget that you ever thought she was quiet."

I think it's fitting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Crime & Punishment, Notes From Underground, The Purity Myth, The Sexual Politics of Meat, The Second Sex, Surrealist poetry, Beloved, Frankenstein, The Gay Science, The Great Gatsby, Lolita, Wuthering Heights, Animal Farm, Gyn/Ecology: The Metaethics of Radical Feminism, The Stranger, Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles, Bird by Bird, Writing Down The Bones, Persepolis, The Beauty Myth, Patriarchy As A Conceptual Trap, Siddhartha, The Catcher in the Rye, To Kill A Mockingbird, In Cold Blood, Anything involving Goddess archetypes, The Secret Life of Bees, too many to list......

Movies: Better off Dead, Capitalism: A Love Story, Beetlejuice, Austin Powers, Step Brothers, A Night At The Roxbury, Superstar, Savage Grace, Various art films, The Jerk, White Chicks, Anchorman.

Shows: Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, American Horror Story, Taboo, RuPaul's Drag Race, The Office, Beavis & Butthead, Cryptozoic documentaries, Ancient Aliens, Adventure Time, Saturday Night Live, Ghost shows.

Music: Active Child, Ellie Goulding, Marina and the Diamonds, T. Rex, Elvis Costello, Link Wray, DMX, The Notorious B.I.G. Weezer, Foxy Shazam, Florence + The Machine, Gotye, Hot Chip, The Shins, Arcade Fire, Howlin' Wolf, Tori Amos, Michael Jackson, David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Kate Bush, Frank Ocean, Daft Punk, Broken Fences, The Weeknd, Lana Del Rey, Lorde.

Food: Indian, Italian and Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee
2. A good sense of humor
3. Books
4. Pasta
5. My art supply trunk
6. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women, Ideas for short stories, the human condition, Leon Trotsky, new ways to incorporate cheesy pick-up lines into everyday conversation, time, art, Marcel Duchamp, Things that would be made better by adding espresso, pop culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a story, cooking, getting drinks with friends, watching ridiculously silly movies or some kind of documentary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Boat rides freak me out because I often worry about the possibility of being attacked by sea monsters.
You should message me if
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You want to meet up for coffee and exchange funny stories.