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20 Portland, ME Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:18pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is Emily, and I make sense of the world by writing and watching. I'm the most extroverted introvert in the greater New England area. I laugh at my own jokes and dislike large crowds, but I do like 90s gangsta rap and building fairy houses. The way to my heart is with Russian literature references and lots of espresso, with a bit of dancing and witty banter.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm going Kerouac on everyone's ass. Sort of. I take one day at a time, and attempt to create safe spaces for myself and those I interact with. I've spent the last 5(ish) years studying Feminist theory, writing, trying to make people laugh, and generally exploring the human experience. My idols are David Bowie and Sylvia Plath.

I am poly-amorous and have a long-term partner. I'm mostly seeking new women friends to hang out with, although I wouldn't turn down a genuine connection. Let's get coffee and talk about literature, or walk around the Eastern Prom, or go to the art museum! I like to think I'm open to new experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
One of my more desirable traits is the ability to make people laugh. I have no problem hamming it up in order to get a few chuckles or to make someone feel more comfortable in a new situation. My sense of humor is a combination of a teenage boy and a philosophy professor. I'm fairly decent at cracking the right jokes at the right time.

I'm also really good at quoting Kanye West.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm super friendly and crack constant jokes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Crime & Punishment, Notes From Underground, The Purity Myth, The Sexual Politics of Meat, The Second Sex, Surrealist poetry, Beloved, Frankenstein, The Gay Science, The Great Gatsby, Lolita, Wuthering Heights, The Stranger, Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles, Bird by Bird, Writing Down The Bones, Persepolis, The Beauty Myth, Patriarchy As A Conceptual Trap, Siddhartha, The Catcher in the Rye, To Kill A Mockingbird, In Cold Blood, Anything involving Goddess archetypes, The Secret Life of Bees, too many to list......

Movies: Better off Dead, Capitalism: A Love Story, Beetlejuice, Austin Powers, Step Brothers, A Night At The Roxbury, Superstar, Savage Grace, Various art films, The Jerk, White Chicks, Anchorman,

Shows: Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, American Horror Story, Taboo, RuPaul's Drag Race, The Office, Beavis & Butthead, Cryptozoic documentaries, Ancient Aliens, Adventure Time, Saturday Night Live, Ghost shows.

Music: Active Child, Ellie Goulding, Marina and the Diamonds, T. Rex, Elvis Costello, Link Wray, DMX, The Notorious B.I.G. Weezer, Foxy Shazam, Florence + The Machine, Gotye, Hot Chip, The Shins, Arcade Fire, Howlin' Wolf, Tori Amos, Michael Jackson, David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Kate Bush, Frank Ocean, Daft Punk, Broken Fences, The Weeknd, Lana Del Rey, Lorde.

Food: Indian, Italian and Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. Coffee
3. Music
4. Human interaction
5. Humor
6. Indian food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women, Ideas for short stories, the human condition, Leon Trotsky, new ways to incorporate cheesy pick-up lines into everyday conversation, time, art, Marcel Duchamp, Things that would be made better by adding espresso, pop culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretending to be Gordon Ramsay, or Steve Irwin. Whichever strikes my mood, really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spilled malbec on my laptop.
You should message me if
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You want to go on cute dates, have dance parties, teach me something cool, or be pen-pals. I promise I'm friendly!