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30 Lynchburg, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:37am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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‎"It's a pleasure for you all to meet me" - Tracy Jordan


I'm a musician, a teacher, a characteristic Libra, and a right-brainer. I like making music, cooking, and all things Autumnal (pumpkin patches, leaves changing).

I like to use this as a way to see who's out there. I'm not seeking a relationship to find "happiness," but rather a person I can share with and confide in.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a music teacher and private lesson instructor, and I recently completed a M.A. degree in Instrumental Conducting. I teach band at five private Christian schools in Lynchburg, Altavista, and Danville. I spend my free time playing piano with a local singer/songwriter and my jazz combo Swing Theory, and I am a cast member of Lynchburg's first and only professional improv comedy group, Hill City Social Club.

I spent eight years in Newport News, VA for college and mid-20's shenanigans, but I moved back here four years ago not knowing very many people so that I could be closer to family and start my "professional" life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking and I try to make time for it as often as possible. Aaaaaand I play piano by ear, so I can probably play your favorite song or at least fake it :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Music the Brain and Ecstasy, Kitchen Confidential, Medium Raw, the Music Lesson, A Whole New Mind.

Movies: Anchorman, Blazin' Saddles, the Boondock Saints, Casablanca, Coming to America, the Departed, Fletch, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, The Godfather Trilogy, Inception, Memento, Ocean's Eleven, Requiem for a Dream, Wall-E, and Horror films in October!

Television Shows: 30 Rock, No Reservations, HIMYM, Stewart-Colbert, Dexter, Community, Arrested Development, Walking Dead, New Girl, Arrow, Downton Abbey, House of Cards, Game of Thrones, Brain Games, Going Deep, Orange is the New Black, the Following.

Music: Muse is my favorite band in the whole wide world, followed by Keane, Fitz and the Tantrums, and Ben Folds Five. I worship jazz pianists Bill Evans and Dave Brubeck as though they were gods. I'm currently experiencing an Alt-Country phase and have been listening to a lot of the Wild Feathers, Drive-By Truckers, Drew Holcomb and the Neighbors, Sons of Bill, Robert Earl Keen, and Fruition.

I have an unhealthy crush on Lindsey Stirling, Ingrid Michaelson, Sara Bareilles, Brandi Carlile, Zooey Deschanel, Grace Potter, Emily Haines, ZZ Ward, and Sherri DuPree Bemis.

I'm a medium rare foodie who thinks the pig is the noblest of all edible animals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hands and fingers (my livelihood)
close network of friends
the "grace'a God"

Here's what I COULD do without:
people who carry guns (not affiliated with law enforcement or armed services)
trucks that "roll coal" with confederate flags
fast food restaurants
domestic 'lite' beers
refined sugars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
climate change
the Big Food industry
travel destinations (Mediterranean Sea, please)
being a Philadelphia Eagles fan in Virginia
owning a baby tiger
opening a restaurant
buying a bar and naming it Puzzles...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being an extroverted owl. I go to Jimmy's on the James a lot, either to socialize or to play piano by myself or with any number of talented musicians who frequent that restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I have a weakness for an attractive pair of legs...
You should message me if
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You've got your act together, have a plan for the future, and are not afraid to say what's on your mind. I'm attracted to strong minds and strong character. I want someone who views their role in a relationship as a partner, not a possession; who understands that affection doesn't always mean 'lets have sex,' but rather is one of five languages of love that physically embodies the emotional connection one shares for another; who resolves conflict pragmatically rather than passively, or worse, aggressively; a Christian woman who focuses more on Christ's love for humanity than shaming and isolating degenerates, submitting to husbands, and advocating for legislation that reflects the laws of the Old Testament.

I do have a type, and I advocate for the necessity to have high standards when looking for romantic relationships. That said, I'm very open-minded and I try to assess everyone I meet as fairly and objectively as possible based on character and not looks. If I don't message you, it might be because I'm doing that stupid thing where I swipe right and wait to see if you do it too. Since I don't post selfies of my biceps and my tricked-out car that runs on pure bull shark testosterone, you can imagine the rating game doesn't work out so well for me.