Hello, and thanks for stopping by. My responses to some of these silly questions are sometimes long because I can't answer what's asked with the (even sillier!) preprogrammed answers. But if you're not too concerned about eye-strain, I'd appreciate you taking the time to read me.
I'm a single mom with a10 year old high-functioning autistic son. He will be a major part of my life, for the remainder of mine.
Fair warning- if we hang out sometime, my friends span the gamut from rednecks to gay activists, burlesque performers and business owners, brewers to drag queens. You'll need to be okay with that.
*special note- I really do mean that some of my friends, GOOD friends, span the LGBTQ rainbow. If you think homosexuality is an offense to God, or that sexual orientation defines a human being, kindly pass me by. This is not a subject I can "agree to disagree" on. Thank you, and now back to your regularly scheduled profile.
I enjoy making people happy - often it's so simple to make someone's day better.
I deeply miss being a partner, lover and friend. I can't help but notice that when there's someone you care about to share your joys with, the joy is so much greater.
To be clear, I'm not looking to get married. I'm not against it, exactly, but it's not what I want for the foreseeable future. My life is pretty full and complete, but I want more than a fuck buddy to share it with. And I'd prefer to share it with someone who's part nerd, rather than someone who's partnered.
Maybe it's corny, but I want someone to go see a movie with, walk on the beach with, go to the river with, who can maybe sleep over once in awhile, date on Valentine's Day and New Year's Eve. I don't want someone glued to my hip, who has no interests of their own.
The best things I've found about being in your 40's- you know your own mind, strengths, faults and desires. No games, no guessing.
As the saying goes, old enough to know better, young enough not to care.