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53 Lakewood, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 5
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I decided to write this profile in a different way or at least a different way for me. I asked friends to describe me in one word or what one word came to them when they thought of me. These are the top 10, and while these words did not really surprise me (they are pretty much how I would describe myself), I was happy that my friends know me as well as they do!

In no particular order here they are:
Fun, caring, positive, loving, compassionate, silly, instigator, laughter, happy and independent.

What do I think of me?
I am pretty much a positive person; life is too short to be angry and to be bitching about how the world is against you. Your world is what you make of it and if you are miserable you are the only one who can change it! I like to hang out with my wonderful friends (who know me so well) and my family. Making new friends is great too! I also like to go wine tasting (yes, another one) but I don’t get to do it as much as I’d like. Spur of the moment short road trips are always fun; to the beach or the mountains or possibly even a new winery.
I am not a girly-girl, but I do like my creature comforts. I guess you’d call me a middle of the road woman regarding how I act and dress. I will happily get dirty when working on a project. Dirty, muddy boots and clothes while working on said project? No worries. Heels? Yes, but remember I’m tall; so please no attitude if I end up being taller than you! Makeup? Always. Sometimes a little, sometimes a little more. Is my weekend uniform sweats and a baggy old shirt? A dress, heels and pearls with perfectly coiffed hair? No and no! I don’t think so. (I’m even making myself laugh with that one!) Although I have been known to greet my man at the door with a drink after a hard day; martini or beer, it makes no difference (I’m a pretty good bartender too!)
What am I looking for? Let’s try those 10 words again, no input from friends required.
In no particular order:
Happy, fun, honest, sincere, ambitious, funny, trustworthy, caring, intelligent and communication.
You should know what you want out of life, and be on your way to accomplishing it. This applies to career, family and relationships. You should also be able to find humor in everyday situations, life is not that bad. Please do not play games. We are not in high school anymore, and common courtesy is in short supply these days.
Do we need to do everything together? No, we don’t. Please go hang out with your friends, because I’ll be hanging out with mine. I would hope that you’d be happy and relaxed and not let the little annoying things in life get to you. I’m looking for someone who is secure and confident (that would have been 12 words, so they are here instead!), and looking for a relationship, not just a fwb situation.
I hope you are not intimidated by these paragraphs, I know what I’m looking for in a relationship, just like you. Once you get to know me, you will find that there is another side of me that only a few see, maybe you will be one of them.
Oh, and those other words that friends used to describe me… maybe I’ll tell you later.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking life day by day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to entertain. The party always ends up at my house, with everyone hanging out in the kitchen! I am a really good cook, I like to drink really good wine. I am a good communicator, and listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of humor and the sparkle that is in my eyes will give you a clue to my true personality. I am also very giving, if you are one of the important people in my life I will do everything in my power to help you if it's needed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have not had a lot of time to read lately, but I do like Stephen King and I read various positive books. Music, ah music, that would be classic rock, some Al Green and some blues. I like action/adventure, drama and comedy when seeing movies. As for food, I like the usual stuff: Italian, Mexican, Chinese and a good steak every once and a while. I do like to eat out every so often, but it's aggravating when I eat something out that I can create so much better at home!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My children
2. Other family
3. Good friends
4. My pets
5. Happiness and positivity
6. Someone to share my life.
7. Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, my goals and family and you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? There are no typical Friday's.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am admitting nothing! I have to know you much better to share everything!
You should message me if
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You feel like it or you think we can connect.

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