In no particular order here they are:
Fun, caring, positive, loving, compassionate, silly, instigator, laughter, happy and independent.
What do I think of me?
I am pretty much a positive person; life is too short to be angry and to be bitching about how the world is against you. Your world is what you make of it and if you are miserable you are the only one who can change it! I like to hang out with my wonderful friends (who know me so well) and my family. Making new friends is great too! I also like to go wine tasting (yes, another one) but I don’t get to do it as much as I’d like. Spur of the moment short road trips are always fun; to the beach or the mountains or possibly even a new winery.
I am not a girly-girl, but I do like my creature comforts. I guess you’d call me a middle of the road woman regarding how I act and dress. I will happily get dirty when working on a project. Dirty, muddy boots and clothes while working on said project? No worries. Heels? Yes, but remember I’m tall; so please no attitude if I end up being taller than you! Makeup? Always. Sometimes a little, sometimes a little more. Is my weekend uniform sweats and a baggy old shirt? A dress, heels and pearls with perfectly coiffed hair? No and no! I don’t think so. (I’m even making myself laugh with that one!) Although I have been known to greet my man at the door with a drink after a hard day; martini or beer, it makes no difference (I’m a pretty good bartender too!)
What am I looking for? Let’s try those 10 words again, no input from friends required.
In no particular order:
Happy, fun, honest, sincere, ambitious, funny, trustworthy, caring, intelligent and communication.
You should know what you want out of life, and be on your way to accomplishing it. This applies to career, family and relationships. You should also be able to find humor in everyday situations, life is not that bad. Please do not play games. We are not in high school anymore, and common courtesy is in short supply these days.
Do we need to do everything together? No, we don’t. Please go hang out with your friends, because I’ll be hanging out with mine. I would hope that you’d be happy and relaxed and not let the little annoying things in life get to you. I’m looking for someone who is secure and confident (that would have been 12 words, so they are here instead!), and looking for a relationship, not just a fwb situation.
I hope you are not intimidated by these paragraphs, I know what I’m looking for in a relationship, just like you. Once you get to know me, you will find that there is another side of me that only a few see, maybe you will be one of them.
Oh, and those other words that friends used to describe me… maybe I’ll tell you later.