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  • Ages 33–50
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Last online
Today – 7:38am
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Has kids
Has cats
English, C++ (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)
My self-summary
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I love to find beauty all over the place...lightning and the moon...the tenderness of night...the thrill of crazy badass speed...creating things...small kindnesses...moments of magic...coincidences and serendipity.

(I also love F Scott Fitzgerald...Crazy badass speed is a reference to Taladega Nights...but when I say it I'm talking about biking. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a programmer. Computer geek. I work with websites mostly but not as a designer.

In my spare time I'm a capoeira student and sometimes...teacher. If you haven't heard of it think karate mixed with break-dancing.

I'm working on a series of stained glass portraits of musicians (so far I have Paul Westerberg and I'm working on David up...hmmm...Bjork maybe) so I can have a show.

Working on a wooden fence around my yard and a patio. Lots of time spent there.
I’m really good at
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I've been told I'm really good at cheering people up. Without annoying them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very laid-back. I have a dry sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books I've loved recently: Role Models by John Waters (I have a signed copy :)...A Natural History of the Senses by Diane Ackerman...Medium Raw by Anthony Bourdain.
Movies I've loved recently: Future by Miranda July.
Songs I've sung at karaoke lately: Downtown Train (Tom Waits), I Wanna Be Sedated (Ramones), Rainbow Connection (Kermit but I love the version from The Breakup).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books. Sushi. My iPhone. Bikes. Drinks. The feeling that you get when you suddenly discover yourself in the presence of something indescribably beautiful, the moon, a tree, the sea, a painting, a person...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking about things excites me...but at some point intellectualism starts to feel like a game. In the end life is about feelings and ideas interacting. The worst thing you can be is boring. The next worst is unkind. Hmm...ok, maybe it depends how unkind you can get.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Have I ever had a typical Friday night? I love art openings, live music, lively conversation, dancing, good food and interestingly mixed drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This isn't nearly my most private thing but only a couple people I work with know that I have word "dream" in kanji tattooed on my arm. As Eleanor Roosevelt said "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
You should message me if
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You think it would be romantic to be the kind of old couple 30 years from now who would slow dance in a bar to the song Punk Rock Girl.