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50 M Hanover, MD

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I believe in chivalry, women should be treated as ladies, and it is important to conduct yourself as a gentleman. So if you don't like the door opened for you, to order first at the restaurant, and me offering up my seat to another woman on a train when none other are available we won’t click. I'm highly allergic to drama but an incurable romantic.
I was born in Europe and at one point very good with French and German. Not so good now, but want to find that special person to travel to Europe again. I do love Paris, but lots of other places I haven't visited yet.

Music is pretty much my life I have worked in the music industry in one capacity or another for over 30 years. At one point I had over 20,000 CD's so my taste in music really does vary. And yes I love to dance, that goes with the whole music thing.

Love the beach/water. Thinking about a small jet boat for some Annapolis fun.

Martial arts are my sports of choice. I no longer compete, but still practice with my peers, instructors, and assist teaching kids classes. I hope to climb one of the great peaks in the next 5 years as well. PS I am convinced there is someone for everyone but some are not for me so I apologize if I'm up front and say heavy set women are not for me. Curvy is good, but toned is better.


Something to think about:

"The Gentleman Warrior"
A boy spends his time finding a girl to sleep with.
A real man spends his time looking for the one worth waking up to.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making myself a better person mentally, physically, emotionally, and hopefully those around me as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a Dad and there for my friends. Or let's say I hope I am good at them. I strive to always be better.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am pragmatic, yet positive, and I am told most women would kill for my eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My tastes are extremely varied and wide:
The whole Marvel Series of movies
About a Boy
Princess Bride
Bend it Like Beckem
Strictly Ballroom
Lawrence of Arabia
Red Cliffs
The Sensei
Goodbye Mr. Chips
You Only Live Twice
To Catch a Thief
Rush to Rachmaninoff to REM
AC/DC to Avicii to ABBA
Doors to Diana Krall to Depeche Mode
Erasure to ELO to Elvis Costello
Pink Floyd to Psychedelic Furs to Pavarotti
Pretty much anything really I was a DJ for over 30 years, on the radio, performed in front of thousands of people, and more.
The Art of Happiness
The Tao of Pooh
The Te of Piglet
Aikido and the Harmony of Nature
The Sphere of Influence
Celestine Prophecy
Flowers for Algernon
The Three Kingdoms
The Art of War
A Tale of Two Cities
Anything as long as it doesn't stare at me or attack me first. I prefer ethnic foods over Americana. Such as: Sushi, Indian, Ethiopian, Chinese, etc...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Little Girl
Martial Arts
The Right Woman
Beach/water (yeah yeah so six isnt enough).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My little girl, how to be a better Dad, and finding the woman that is perfect for me..not perfect. And thinking how cliche some of the comments I see on dating sites have become: "Living life to the fullest and Live, Love, and Laugh" is about as original and mundane as "Thinking outside of the box".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending quality time with my daughter building the newest Lego project, out having fun with family/friends, trying to figure out how to date and make you smile, why have all women suddenly taken up hiking and changing back and forth from evening gowns to overalls?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Ex of 17 years is 12 years my junior. It seems younger women and I have more in common as I dont look my age and prefer to be far more active than most men my age. There are exceptions to every rule, but not so far.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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If you are fit, fun, & drama free. Curves are just fine, but if you have a belly roll I'm sorry but you're not for me. If you read this far, I'm really impressed and must meet you.