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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–59
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:40pm
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Summary v2.0
Trying to re-write this AGAIN, and not having much luck. I hate talking about myself, and I always hated the essay questions in skool. All I can come up with are the cheesy, cliche things like "I'm a good listener, have a great sense of humor" etc.

I used to be a DJ, did it part time for about 7 years, mostly weddings and private parties. If that isn't cheesy..... no, I never considered myself to be the corny wedding DJ that everyone would laugh at. So if you like tons of oldies on your iPod, I can hook you up!

I'm more of a Pandora guy than a radio guy. That said, primary station on my car is WTOP, and NPR on Saturday mornings for CarTalk and Wait Wait (although lately I have just streamed the latter two sometime during the weekend).

I'm a finance/tech geek wanna be. In my current position, I hold the purse strings for a large IT project. Obviously I am better with numbers than words!

Can someone explain this friend/enemy thing to me?!? Maybe it's a Friends of Carlotta/Enemies of Carlotta thing? (Seriously doubt anyone gets that reference....)

Version 3: a fat guy who likes watching classic (ok and new) James Bond movies!

Recently bought a new turntable and rediscovering all my old vinyl!

Started a blog this summer. Hardly anyone reads it but it's a lot of fun!

Just FYI, the selfie with Sen. McCain, from July 2015, doesn't necessarily reflect my political views. However it was neat to run into him at the airport and it was HIS idea for the selfie. Pretty cool of him!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Treading water?!?

Rediscovering vinyl. Just purchased a replacement, entry level turntable and pulled out my old LPs. Also purchased about a dozen other oldies last weekend.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well I used to be good at grilling steaks.... I'm a good listener (I know... Boring...) parallel parking.... self depricating humor.... and I'm extremely talented at the art of using ellipses....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmm... My height? Almost 6-1, not a giant but... Or maybe my David Letterman-esque gap toothed smile?? If it's on the weekend, it's probably the fact that I didn't shave. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately I've been getting into Big Bang Theory, as well as watching all 279 episodes of the old Hawaii Five-O! Love the Colbert Report and Daily Show when I remember to watch them!

I have very eclectic tastes in music, and have about 11,000 songs on my computer from my DJ days. Sometimes even I'm surprised if I put iTunes on shuffle!

Food... hmm... sadly I probably eat too much (that's why I need to start going to the gym again!). Love just about anything!

I should read more than I do. Last books I read were Wicked (saw the show in NYC a couple years ago) and George Takei's "Oh Myyy!". I like the traditional male genres (Stephen King, Tom Clancy, Dan Brown), and recently read Complete Book of Poems by Carl Sandburg. Oh, and Curious George is always a "go to".

Update on the reading: I recently purchased a Kindle Fire HD. Who knew you could download books in addition to playing Freecell and Words With Friends?!? Now I have to see if I can download Curious George.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.My grown kids
2. My iPhone
3. Music
4. Jogging
5. Sunshine
6. Pizza
7. My ability to count to six!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How nearly every sentence in my profile ended with an exclamation point! And good god, did I really answer 523 questions???

Speaking of which, I also wonder how some of you have "Y'all got issues" instead of the generic "Questions" at the top?!

And even though I have it checked off, what exactly is "short term dating"??

What happens to all the unsold boxes of Girl Scout cookies?

How come, on languages spoken, Klingon isn't one of the options??

How can someone like me with very little hair wake up with such wicked bed head???
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now not much but looking to change that. I mean really, why else would I be typing this on my iPhone?

During baseball season I'm probably staying up too late watching Vin Scully and the Dodgers!

I'm also cleaning up my music on my computer. I've most recently gotten it down to just 1200 duplicated songs in my iTunes!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really a wealthy lottery winner!
You should message me if
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.... you can differentiate between a single malt and a blend've had steak chateaubriand style and think that's the best are breathing've never been on a dating website (oh wait, never mind... know what ELO stands far